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post #16 of 668 (permalink) Old 01-27-2017, 02:43 PM
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*sniff*

Hmmm, "new thread smell"! I like!

In other news, my metabolism has slowed down now, I'm putting on alot of weight, which is great as I've become more sexai! BUT! Fat is starting to accumulate on my belly

My belt jumped 6 inches too, I'm getting fat *does sit ups*

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I closed the old thread so that no one can post there. I also included a link to this thread.

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Thank you, Ele. I thought about asking to close it, but I didn't know if I could, since I didn't start the original thread.

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*sniff*

Hmmm, "new thread smell"! I like!

In other news, my metabolism has slowed down now, I'm putting on alot of weight, which is great as I've become more sexai! BUT! Fat is starting to accumulate on my belly

My belt jumped 6 inches too, I'm getting fat *does sit ups*
It's fancy, right? I figure I'll create a new one again, once this one reaches 1000 pages.

RD--how quickly did you gain this weight? 6 inches on your belt is quite a bit, especially if it was over a short amount of time. Has your activity level and/or your diet changed significantly in recent months?

I ask because the natural slow-down in metabolism usually results in a very gradual weight gain. From what I've read, and this applies to women, but I imagine it would be slightly similar for men, changing hormones and a slower metabolism should only result in an approximate weight gain of 25# over a DECADE.

I'm thinking you gained way too much weight, way too fast, and I think you should go see a doctor.

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I didn't participate much in the other thread. Moved so fast I couldn't keep up lol. Maybe this one will pace better . Love being single
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I didn't participate much in the other thread. Moved so fast I couldn't keep up lol. Maybe this one will pace better . Love being single
Sometimes it move super fast, and sometimes it's quiet for a few days. I hope you'll participate!

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Married people are NOT single even if they want to be.


Depends on the marriage.
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It's fancy, right? I figure I'll create a new one again, once this one reaches 1000 pages.

RD--how quickly did you gain this weight? 6 inches on your belt is quite a bit, especially if it was over a short amount of time. Has your activity level and/or your diet changed significantly in recent months?

I ask because the natural slow-down in metabolism usually results in a very gradual weight gain. From what I've read, and this applies to women, but I imagine it would be slightly similar for men, changing hormones and a slower metabolism should only result in an approximate weight gain of 25# over a DECADE.

I'm thinking you gained way too much weight, way too fast, and I think you should go see a doctor.
On November I went overseas with my daughter and ate ate ate, belt jumped 2 inches, after my bday, I dunno what happened, cause in 1 month, jumped 4 more inches. I was determined to put on weight, but it's normally a struggle to gain and maintain, now it's so easy, and I'm even sexier! Normally I get flirty or second looks from 25% of women walking past, now it's 75% !

As long as I don't gain anymore in my belly


If I start getting too fat, will see doctor, but I hope my metabolism is just "balancing" out, used to be so hypo!
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Agreed. And as we all know, there are stages to this process that we all go through. Are you "wanting to be single" and cheating on a spouse? Are your possessions divided, divorce papers filed and you're all moved out and in a new place by yourself? Circumstances matter to some. To others, until the gavel falls, you're still married.
I did meet my husband when he was not quite divorced, but his wife had met another men and was ending the marriage. We didnt get engaged till after the divorce was final, and there was no sex either(or anywhere near it)till we got married.
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My divorce is contingent on the sale of the marital home which has been on the market for 1.5 years. We also signed a separation agreement at that time, part of which stated to treat each other as if we were never married. Considering it was a 10 year sexless marriage, I am dating

We did try to cohabitate and I made it one year and moved out. It was either that or murder. lol

So...am I legally married? Yes. Am I single and available? YOU BETCHA!

Lastly, thanks for the new thread! The other one looked interesting but the thread count was too intimidating


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My divorce is contingent on the sale of the marital home which has been on the market for 1.5 years. We also signed a separation agreement at that time, part of which stated to treat each other as if we were never married. Considering it was a 10 year sexless marriage, I am dating

We did try to cohabitate and I made it one year and moved out. It was either that or murder. lol

So...am I legally married? Yes. Am I single and available? YOU BETCHA!

Lastly, thanks for the new thread! The other one looked interesting but the thread count was too intimidating


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You are not actually single and available if you are still married in one sense. Many women wont date a man who is still married.
Maybe reduce the price of your house? If it hasn't sold in 18 months its too expensive. Also a good declutter and decorating often helps.

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Bwaahaaa. There's nothing you can tell me after all this time sweetheart.

And btw...I will NEVER get married again. It's a legal contract. That is all. If you are dedicated to someone, then you are and no government contract will make it any better. In my case, it made it worse.


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Bwaahaaa. There's nothing you can tell me after all this time sweetheart.

And btw...I will NEVER get married again. It's a legal contract. That is all. If you are dedicated to someone, then you are and no government contract will make it any better. In my case, it made it worse.


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For me its marriage or nothing. BTW its so much more than a legal contract, its a 100% commitment with promises made, a covenant relationship between 2 people.
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2 people, all of your closest friends and family, someone deemed legal to marry you, the court....hmmm...who am I leaving out? Oh yeah... the divorce attorneys. lol

Love just seems a little more simple to me than that


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My divorce is contingent on the sale of the marital home which has been on the market for 1.5 years.
That seems rather foolish.

I'm not understanding why you'd write up a settlement agreement making the sale of the home mandatory to finalize your divorce.

After 1.5 years I suggest um.. changing it.
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That seems rather foolish.



I'm not understanding why you'd write up a settlement agreement making the sale of the home mandatory to finalize your divorce.



After 1.5 years I suggest um.. changing it.


Because everything is still in one pot. His paycheck, my paycheck. Mortgage comes out of account.

Once you sit down with a mutual agreement in front of a notary, which he did and gladly, and sign whatever agreement, it is what it is until the terms are met and the hammer falls.


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