Re: Falling "IN LOVE" again
FIP, wouldn't you say that your reaction to your current situation has been largely shaped by your experiences in your past relationships? Does it not make sense, then that he would be viewing things through his own prism of experience and reacting accordingly? I think when we are young and do not know anywhere near as much as we do when we are older, those experiences are either more closely in parallel with each other or are simply not as important to us. When we are young we see our whole life ahead of us, and never stop to consider that some day they will end. The days last forever. As we age, we begin to see the deadlines that are approaching, perhaps it is the ability to have a child for women, the inability to compete for men, or beyond that the end of our lives. Patience is an affordable luxury when we are young, where as it becomes an unacceptable expense as we age?
At the center of every moMEnt of my life is ME!