Sparkles422

and it sucked, Shoo was right. I won't forget it. Cried most of the day and then round 5 felt better because the large part of that day was over.

I hope I never have to feel this kind of pain again. Man I loved that man.

solitudeseeker

Sorry Sparkles. I hope next year will be better for you.

EleGirl

From now on for holidays make sure you have plans.. even if it's working at the soup kitchen. Do something. Be with people.

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cherokee96red

If it hadn't been for my kids, I definitely would have had a really bad day. As it was I was determined to not let my mood bring everybody else down. That made a big difference in me getting through the day. Then the day after was my son's 24th b-day and I was able to cook him a great dinner to celebrate. What did anger m was the STBXH forgetting his own childs b-day until the next day. Talked to him but "forgot" it was his b-day. Par for the course I suppose, he forgot the anniversary date and text me about money. I had to tell him to check the calendar when he wanted to know why I said it was not a good day to discuss that topic with me on that day. Shmuck!

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nice777guy

Sparkles - I'm sure Christmas will be as hard as its going to get for you. So - you've already made it through the worst of it all - right?

Hope so...hang in there...

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