Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: Where I lay my head
Re: Ok when should the purposal come
I knew my XW 18 months prior to. M roughly two years after met. It's a mixed bag for everyone and age plays a huge part. Also does how many previous D, age of kids, state of affairs with their XW / XH.
Some may wait longer if kids are within a year or two from leaving for college. Most will certainly weigh in the balance of assets. If one has an 8:1 ratio in assets and the "1" is pushing engagement / M. the "8" will have cause for alarm.
A-Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
B-We know what we are, but know not what we may be
C-Never make the person in your present pay for the sins committed by people from your past