Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: Where I lay my head
Re: Ok when should the purposal come
Most people are very against M.... after they D. Completely normal. I always had the two year mark
myself. Within the first two, all the skeletons come out, as do the bandages fall, if there are any.
I've only lived with two females, the XW and the post-D girl. Living with post-D girl did allow
me to see her true flaws. After a year in, I was talking to an old TAM vet and he predicted she will
have a meltdown in roughly another year. He missed it by one month.
One positive thing you can see from second M is neither will stay in the M even if they are miserable.
They've been down that road. The main reason for living together is for people to make sure they
are not given the "bait n switch." -My Tommy is a good man, he may have a drink once in awhile.-
Then after M, she finds out he drinks every day... and not just a glass of wine at meals.
-We have sex all the time, she takes care of herself, works out 5x a week, cooks 4-5x a week-
Then after M, she quits the gym, gets a Marcy Darcy chili bowl, sees sex as a chore, and you know
the Chinese deliver guy on a first name basis and what classes he is taking that semester.
A-Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
B-We know what we are, but know not what we may be
C-Never make the person in your present pay for the sins committed by people from your past