Re: Ok when should the purposal come
Together with my darling gf for over a year now. On account of us both coparenting on a week/week basis, we agree that it would be too complicated to really move in together. In the week without kids though, we are living like a married couple - mostly at my house. Vacations with and without kids, family events etc, all as a couple.
I'm actually very happy with this arrangement. Kids love it, too.
Gf, given the opportunity, would move over permanently, that is for sure, but I kinda like the situation as it is right now. Later though, when the kids fly out, I can see us definitely moving in together.
But marriage? Never again.