Re: how does one find someone new?
You'll be fine!! Get on POF.com and have fun. You'll find lots of good looking (some a little crazy) women on there that just want sex, some that want to date but not be serious, and some looking for marriage. And it's free!
If you aren't already, hit the gym 5x a week. Get in the best shape of your life. Not just to make yourself more attracted to women (which it will), but more importantly to get healthy and have confidence. Hit the weights the hard, lift heavy. Be very light with the cardio, focus on muscle growth. Eat and drink very healthy, this is key. Do this for a couple months and you'll feel great about your future.