01-08-2012, 07:06 AM
Join Date: Apr 2008
| | If I was still married.....
....I would look to be 100 years old and bald as a babies bottom!
I spent the last part of my marriage praying for a meteor strike, frankly I didn't care if it hit her or me, I just wanted the misery to be over. Once I got divorced and the years of stress and anger began fading away I rediscovered my normal personality, happy, calm and collected.
But I have also noticed physical changes, my hair has stopped falling out and I swear sometimes it appears to be just a little darker than it was!! Even the wrinkles on my face don't look as deep as they were. Others notice these changes as well, New Years I was at a party and a friends wife asked me if I was getting spa treatments or "something", it had been over a year since I had seen her and she couldn't get over how different I looked. It's not like I'm looking younger, it's just I don't look so aged and haggard, and I'm sure it's because I'm out of that stress bowl of a marriage.
So....for those of us that graduated to the divorced status what do you think you or your life would be like if still married ?