01-30-2012, 07:20 PM
Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: Chicago suburbs
| | Re: Just Feeling Down Today
Originally Posted by proudwidaddy
I'm actually feeling horribly down today. Had the kids spend the night last night, which was amazing. Now I'm depressed after dropping them off. I'm going through the divorce process, wife said she loves me but doesn't love me. I'm slowly getting over her, but what has me down is my current living situation. I went from a beautiful house to renting a room out of a college house. Come June I get to move in with my best friend who is also going through this. That will help. I just feel that I can't see the light at the end of the tunnel right now. I feel like I went from having this great life that we worked hard for the last 11 years, to now thinking I will never get any better. I hate the rollercoaster.
I know how your feeling, I remodeled our house from top to bottom and now I have a room at my sisters house and the wife has the house, and get this, isn't paying the mortgage. She said she won't sell and will have it go into foreclosure. If I had the money and a job, I'd move back there to my house and she said she would leave and I'd live their instead. But I don't have a job or any money. Had to quit my job and move 750 miles away to have someplace to live. But that is another story for another time. She did want me to quit claim the house to her for $10. After all that work I did, and she'll either sell it then and make a little money and me nothing, or she'll live there and have a boyfriend live their with her and be doing it in our bedroom with her. Can't handle that thought process. Rather burn it down than let her have it. But don't want foreclosure either. AND she won't sell it and she is a Realtor. Go Figure.