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Old 03-30-2012, 08:51 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Where do single 25 - 35 year old women hang out?

Seriously, are there any? If so, where the heck are they? Everybody I know is married!

Not ready yet but i'd be lying if I said I haven't been thinking about it. I want to share this wonderful life with someone.
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Old 03-30-2012, 09:03 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Depends on what their interests are... If I were you, I'd frequent places that interest you... Library, gym, museum, park etc. That way if you do meet someone you might already have common interests with them. Heck, my ex and I met at Walmart, and that was the start of a 5 year relationship!
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Old 03-30-2012, 09:18 PM   #3 (permalink)
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grocery stores. Either late night or early saturday morning
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Old 03-30-2012, 11:59 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Yep.....That_girl is right!

I am 34, if I am not at home with my kids, I am at the grocery store or the park. lol

But.....you can't be afraid to actually approach and face the possibility of rejection.....or that the women is comitted. Still, almost any woman would take it as a compliment to have someone give them a nice compliment....
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Take dance classes. There are never enough men.
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Yeah I would also say do things that interest you and you are bound to find someone and the bonus is they will already share an intrest with you. Think that is a good idea
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Old 03-31-2012, 08:03 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Thanks all for replying. It is not unusual at all for me to be at either the grocery store or the park so I guess I'm off to a good start : )

As for the things I like to do, I guess we will just see what that is! I can't wait to walk up to a woman and pay her a compliment. Rejection doesn't scare me at all now! Going through all this makes me think I can take ANYTHING!

I wonder what a woman in my boat would like to hear from a nice guy that walks up to her out of the blue? Been a long time since I gave that any thought!
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Wow, bumped into this GORGEOUS, STUNNINGLY BEAUTIFUL mother of two very nice looking kids when I decided to be lazy for lunch and take my son to mcdonalds - it was a recently renovated one with the indoor play place so he has been wanting me to take him there for months. This young woman was probably mid to late 20's and dressed in a very sexy but tasteful outfit, no ring on her finger. Our kids were having a great time together and we chatted a bit she seemed polite at which point I got so confused if she was showing interest in me or if it should have just been that obvious to everyone I was not in her league - I like to think there is nobody out of my league its only a matter of me stepping up and saying something but I guess my fear of rejection has always held me back from ever being able to escalate the interaction -I found myself silently analyzing my moves, awaiting her approval or permission to engage in speech.

It really was quite pathetic that I didn't even try to take a risk by somehow (I don't even have a clue what) showing I was interested big time, its like I automatically assume that all guys have an interest in someone that attractive and she must know it.

Anyways SD, when you find out where all the attractive women are make sure you know what to do or you will feel like a chicken like I do.
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Seriously, are there any? If so, where the heck are they? Everybody I know is married!

Not ready yet but i'd be lying if I said I haven't been thinking about it. I want to share this wonderful life with someone.
I'd love to tell you, I could use some single female friends.

All of mine have kids and long term relationships/marriages Actually the last time I attempted girls night out, I ended up with 4 guys going out with me instead luckily catching a grateful dead cover band. -.-
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I've found they do not hang out much at sports bars!!!

Do you have kids? I took my girls out shopping at the mall one night - they convinced me to go into a women's clothing store and let them try on dresses and outfits. My oldest (12) was talking about a school dance (that was 6 months away). First of all, I was probably the only single guy in this crowded store on a Friday night. Second - several women commenting on how the dresses looked and how exciting those first dances are. And finally you could just tell I was getting MAJOR points for being an awesome Dad. Of course my girls were having a great time as well.

Someone else suggested cooking classes. But I was thinking I could try pole dancing some time!!!
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when you find out where all the attractive women are make sure you know what to do or you will feel like a chicken like I do.
I know it really shouldn't matter since I most likely will never see that woman again but I chicken out as well. It is hard! I'm not a super outgoing person until I start getting to know someone and then I talk non-stop.

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Someone else suggested cooking classes. But I was thinking I could try pole dancing some time!!!
I'm thinking of signing up for a yoga class!!!!!
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I tried Yoga a few times several years ago. And yes - I was the only guy in a class with 10-15 women. But there wasn't much chance for socializing. People came in - class started - and they quickly went on their way once it was over.
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The DOG PARK! (NO! that is not a joke... but go ahead, I know most of you want to run with it)...

Seriously though... If you don't have a dog - go adopt a puppy from a shelter... Women (and a lot of men) turn to mush over puppies & cannot resist the urge to say something. There is sumthin seriously wrong with a person that doesn't love a puppy (weeds out the bad seeds right there)!

Go to the dog park, on a walk to your local Starbuck's or anywhere you can sit outside (cutiefy your company and they will come). Dog park is great anytime on the weekends or after 5pm on weekdays.

The added bonuses: instant good karma for rescuing a puppy, your kids will be stoked, you will get to come home to someone that is beyond thrilled to see you every single time you walk in the door and will gladly kiss you anytime you want. That right there is good medicine for the soul.

P.S... as a single mom I've never been comfortable with men flirting with me (or vice-versa) when I'm with my son even if their kids are around (park, playground, etc.). It kinda creeps me out.

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at my H's job apparently!!!!!lol
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Old 04-01-2012, 12:57 PM   #15 (permalink)
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@nice guy

I was kidding on the yoga. Do like it, though, but in the format of the P90X.

I like topics like this. Much more fun than some of our pity party type of topics (true those are necessary but at least with these types of topics I can at least feel that I am moving forward).

Alright, ladies. We need more help from you all. Besides at cattrustu's husband's job, the dog park, the grocery store or any other places listed, where can guys go to meet ladies? How do we best approach you without looking like a creeper or a pathetic, desperate weirdo? Not looking to play any games here but I am genuinely curious on what you actually like to hear versus what the Rules of Seduction teaches us guys to do and say.

I need a good wing-woman to go out with to help me with this stuff!!!!
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