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Old 04-13-2012, 08:58 PM   #46 (permalink)
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It's Friday night. We should all go get laid. I'll bring the batteries.

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love your smiley. Stealing.
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Old 04-13-2012, 09:06 PM   #48 (permalink)
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love your smiley. Stealing.
my smiley?
and youre stealing it?
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Old 04-13-2012, 11:16 PM   #49 (permalink)
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I actually shook her hand and said "It's nice to meet you." It was either that, or go inside and get a knife. For him, not her. But my kids were there, so I made nice. I only killed them both savagely in my head.
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Her ass can't hear you. Scream at her face.
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Old 04-13-2012, 11:20 PM   #52 (permalink)
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I had to edit that post, I'm so tired.. I meant your ex call you honey.
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Old 04-13-2012, 11:26 PM   #53 (permalink)
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I screamed at her face for a good 6 months I just thought it was so weird that she called me that as I would-will never say that to her for the rest of my life. The acting like we are friends after everything she has done truly baffles me.
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It doesn't baffle me. He likes his golden image. He has been a real snake, but if he can act charming, hugging my mom, trying to coax a smile out me with his coy humor, then he feels all is forgiven. All better! And I should try harder to forgive. At least that's what I hear. For my own sake. But ... nfw. Not while he continues to screw and hurt me every way he can. Anger keeps me vigilant.
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Old 04-13-2012, 11:38 PM   #55 (permalink)
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Im not angry anymore, I just think my exw words to me and actions are strange.
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Old 04-14-2012, 12:17 AM   #56 (permalink)
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It doesn't baffle me. He likes his golden image. He has been a real snake, but if he can act charming, hugging my mom, trying to coax a smile out me with his coy humor, then he feels all is forgiven. All better! And I should try harder to forgive. At least that's what I hear. For my own sake. But ... nfw. Not while he continues to screw and hurt me every way he can. Anger keeps me vigilant.
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Old 04-15-2012, 07:48 PM   #57 (permalink)
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My last time with my STBXH was October, 2011 so more than 18 months and I am really feeling the pressure. I was so used to being able to have sex whenever I wanted it. And we were good in the bedroom. Being alone is ok, but not as good as a warm body! Waiting for the D to be finalized in the next month then who knows...
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6 months. Self pleasure is rough too because I couldn't do it unless I was thinking of him. Now, it kind of just depresses me. Ugh.
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Old 04-15-2012, 09:35 PM   #59 (permalink)
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Oh yes, crying and pleasuring all at the same time, I know what you mean
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Old 04-15-2012, 10:32 PM   #60 (permalink)
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For those of us who are officially free - is there something to be said for going out and just getting laid???

Or would we totally not respect ourselves in the morning...?
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