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Old 04-23-2012, 03:18 PM   #1 (permalink)
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How can you tell when someone is flirting with you?
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Old 04-23-2012, 03:25 PM   #2 (permalink)
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When she asks you a question, our talks to you, she leans in and looks at your eyes while you are speaking. She smiles at you, she touches you, she asks you about yourself.
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Old 04-23-2012, 04:59 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Smiling and tilt of head.
Looking back over shoulder when walking away from you.
Twirling full circle in order to wave goodbye to you at the 180.
Touching you on the shoulder or hand or arm.
We learn how to do this in dance class!
It's expected if you're dancing with a friend and want to have fun or are already having fun.
You don't do it if the guy is unsafe or creepy, then it's a poker face.
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Old 04-24-2012, 07:42 AM   #4 (permalink)
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My ex used to shave her legs, and then tell me she did.
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Old 04-24-2012, 08:08 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Do you think you have been the target of some flirting, Proud?

At the risk of sounding too eager...
C'MON FESS UP! We want ALL the details!

Just kidding! You're asking for you because of a situation, I assume? Welcomed or unwanted flirting?
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Old 04-24-2012, 08:10 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Body language (do they turn toward you, touch you)

Women like to do flipping of the hair

Smiling at you

Eye contact

Flirtatious banter
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Old 04-24-2012, 08:22 AM   #7 (permalink)
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I'm concerned that you're thinking too hard again here. I can spot that kind of thing because I'm guilty of it myself.

If a woman is acting a bit nicer than usual to me, I get my flirt on.

If she's talking to you - and you're talking to her - and you're both smiling and having fun - who cares what you call it???

And also - being newly single - must say it took me a short time to realize that flirting is fairly common. And just because someone is flirting with you, it doesn't necessarily mean they are interested in going out with you.

If you think a girl is flirting with you, just enjoy the moment and go with the flow!
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If a woman is acting a bit nicer than usual to me, I get my flirt on.
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Old 04-24-2012, 08:56 PM   #9 (permalink)
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@alone,
Yeah last Saturday night when I went out with some friends for the UFC fight my female friend's friend was flirting with me (She is 24, I am 34). She was making eye contact, complimented me on how well I look, told me I look younger than my age, and then at the end of the night she asked me for a back rub, and she gave me a back rub. It made me feel good.
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Read up on flirting online. Look for body language signs.

People flirt with their body...not necessarily their words.

I love going to bars and seeing who will go home with whom. Hardly ever wrong.
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I love going to bars and seeing who will go home with whom. Hardly ever wrong.
That, is a good skill for a wing(wo)man to have!
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Old 04-25-2012, 01:16 AM   #12 (permalink)
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When is looking at you, when you are talking and when you notice, she smiles and still looks at you......
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@alone,
Yeah last Saturday night when I went out with some friends for the UFC fight my female friend's friend was flirting with me (She is 24, I am 34). She was making eye contact, complimented me on how well I look, told me I look younger than my age, and then at the end of the night she asked me for a back rub, and she gave me a back rub. It made me feel good.
Yeah totally flirting with you.
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Old 04-26-2012, 05:24 PM   #14 (permalink)
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So the 24 year old who gave me the back rub, fb'd me her phone number, told me to call her sometime.
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Ohhhhhh..... yeeeeeeaaaaahhhhhh.....

Call her dude. Make friends with her, its not cheating on your vows.
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