05-06-2012, 01:06 PM
Join Date: Feb 2012
| | Re: 5 mos later
Originally Posted by Paradise
Right there with you. My ex is getting married to #3 this summer and she's the same age. We'll see what happens. To be honest, I really don't care either way. Not like I would ever take her back.
Just keep your eye on the kid(s) if you have them. That's all that matters now.
I don't care that she got married since I knew she would. When she asked me to take the kids for 10 days 3 months back I told my family she was probably getting married and low & behold there it is.. What I do care about is what she is teaching my children and the impact it will have on them when the marriage ends. I know it won't last as I have spoken with a professional in detail about her and he has told me that she most likely has BPD. He said she has enough of the indicators but could't diagnose her without treating her. What he did say is he can 100 % guarantee she has a psychological-personality disorder. He has a PHD and treats other psychologists and has worked in the field for 25 years so he knows his stuff.
She does have primary but I have my kids 50% for overnights and recently I now see them every day as well.