nice777guy

And what happens when one of you meet another person who they want to talk about the future with?

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working_together

Good question, I don't have all the answers. Maybe by that point we'll ask each other "where is this going"...I think he's starting to wonder, he asked me last weekend in a subtle way to kind of gauge my reaction. I told him that I really like the fact that we have a lot in common and get along well, and are very much at the same stage in life with our separations. We both have kids the same age so we laugh a lot about what they do, typical kids stuff. We also agreed that we'd be friends if we decided not to date any longer....that's tough though.

ABeautifulDisaster

I waited. To me it was just the right thing to do. I don't think anything good ever comes out of a relationship that begins with a partner who is married to another even if it is only by paper. You can be moved on and out emotionally but you are still married. That is just my thoughts on it. It is also viewed by the courts in my state as an affair which leads to grounds here. Grounds are ugly......God forbid you ever have your children meet that person. That makes it even worse. I don't know....all I know is that the next relationship I put myself into is going to mean something or I'm not having sex. I just want MORE than that. I can only speak for me though and I wish to have commitment and butterflies....not necessarily in that order. I'm either going to be all in or not there at all.