06-21-2012, 09:07 AM
Join Date: May 2012
Location: Austin TX
| | Re: Life as we know it.
Nice is right...you are mourning, which is perfectly fine.
Also, I've been in your shoes -- you are not just mourning a marriage, you are mourning the loss of a friend you had for 25 years. You know, the person you would talk to about your failed marriage, except you married him. I did the same thing, and while I never ever have missed him as a husband, I do sometimes miss the friend.
Please give yourself a break. You don't need to be dating right now, you need to be taking very good, very loving care of yourself. Good luck.