06-21-2012, 08:28 AM
Join Date: Nov 2009
| | Re: Do you love your kids more than you hate your ex?
Its about letting go of your Ex and focusing on your kids.
My Ex told the girls last week that she would take them to get their ears pierced one day. It was very tempting to tell them "I wouldn't hold my breath if I were you" - but I didn't. Ten days later - no ears are pierced.
This would be the perfect opportunity for me to explain to the kids that their mother is lazy and selfish. But going that route would only hurt the kids more, while having little affect on my Ex.
Or, I could call up my Ex and remind her of how irresponsible and lazy she is. But that would do no good either.
I just try to make the times I'm with my girls as good as they can be - which means talking about their mother as little as possible.
“Fighting for peace is like screwing for virginity!" - Carlin