07-13-2012, 08:54 AM
Join Date: Mar 2011
| | Re: Seeing the 'ex'
War, I had a similar experience with my ex. He had reached out to me and asked me how I was and I told him I was doing well and etc. He would always make a point to say how "happy" I seemed and how "easy" it seems to have been for me. When I asked him how he was, he said he was "miserable" and not really ok. And I felt sad for him. But for the first time, it didn't pain me nor did I try to prop him up to make him feel better. I was no longer his cheerleader and that felt so weird but good.
With that said, I do wish him the best, no matter what.
Glad to see you are doing well and still lurking It's always nice to see people come back and post updates and where they are in their journey.