Originally Posted by LilMissSunshine View Post
I won't go into all of my back story, but encourage anyone to click on my user name and read more about my history if you would like. I am wondering if my expectations for a romantic and emotionally connected relationship, along with some physical intimacy is out of whack................things are getting better, but I wonder if I am just not expecting too much for a couple that has been married close to 25 years. Does it always evolve into a 'companion' type of love? I know there aren't going to be sparks and fireworks like in the very beginning, but HOW MUCH OF THAT should still be there at all 25 years later??? I may be disillusioned and need to change my thought processes................anyone have thoughts on this???
Accepting what might be considered "normal" is a mistake in my opinion.
What you desire is I important and sounds reasonable.
Mrs. Conan and I have over 25 years since our first date and sex and over. 21 years officially married.
We have not ceased pursuing each other sexually /romantically or working hard on our relationship.
We have just come out of the toughest year of our relationship yet with increased sexual passion, intimacy and romance as well as an improved companionship.
A relationship can wither or atrophy if not purposefully cared for.
It is only natural for something to grow stale or atrophy when not being cared for and preserved like something incredibly precious and beautiful.
There really is no normal. Only what we each achieve and work towards.
To put it bluntly. My heart still stops sometimes when I look at her.
When I hold her in my arms, peace and warmth flood both of us.
We are both each others hot fvcktoys more than ever before with the best blow jobs and pvssy eating than ever before.
It is hard work but the payoff is amazing.
It is very easy to drift and let things lay. Improvement has a cost attached to it.
We have had to endure pain and discomfort to get stronger.
But that is life, isn't it?