09-03-2011, 03:18 PM
Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Wherever I lay my head.
| | Re: Tips for success of a young love/family?
I wouldn't propose, but that's just me. Men want to be able to do that (most men anyway) and by taking the lead, you will find yourself in the lead and ultimately lose respect for your husband and he will lose respect for himself.
The rest, well, dealing with your son (which I hope he is ok) is very difficult...maybe it was a ton of stress for your BF. When my 2nd daughter was born, she was in the hospital for only a week and it was scary...maybe he's still stressed or scared and doesn't want to bond? I don't know.
It's also a lot for young people to deal with. Baby, family, commitment. He works on his cars to take back some of his freedom. You're lucky it's not another woman he's working on.
"If you were an aqua fresca, you'd be a wh0re-chata."