You know how people sort of pick a celebrity and say "Wow that person is my type?" Well my Dear Hubby has always like Janice Joplin, because she's not a twig, she has long flowing hair and a feminine hippie look, and she loved her music.
I am the living embodiment of Rosie Cotton. I'm short, I'm built with all kinds of curves, I have curling hair to my beltline, and I love long, flowing, gauze skirt and peasant tops. I will never, EVER be a willowy ballet dancer type, but physically I am his thing.
He also always wants a peaceful, mellow, happy, funny, smart, pleasant woman who was friendly and just easy to be with. That is again, 100% me. We have so many things in common, we often tease each other that we married ourselves! Or...he's me as a male and I'm him as a female!
For me, even though I just 5ft. tall, I've always liked guys who are 6ft or more. Envision a Viking or a football player with a big, barrel chest and a manly beard and some sexy chest hair... and you've got me all hot and bothered! And that is him 100%!!
He's got those melty blue eyes (I have brown and he thinks they are warm and earthy), and he wears his hair long and braided in back. So....envision Jerry Garcia as a biker and you'd be pretty close! I get crazy turned on by the 'big strong man' coming to sweep the little hobbit lass off her feet--so we are both incredibly each others' types.
In addition, I always wanted the same kind of thing he wanted: a peaceful, mellow, happy, funny, smart, pleasant man who was easy to be with. I like the Big Lebowski because DUDE--he is so easy to just hang with! Sure some weird stuff happens, but oh well--that's life! My huge "requirements" if you will are that he be a Christian man (share my faith), that he be as smart as or smarter than me (he's smarter), and that he have absolutely no anger issues or abusiveness.
He's DEFINITELY the man for me!!!!