If completely fit 1 of the 2 types my W has been drawn to in her adult life. Type 1 is the professional businessman - suit & tie, clean shaven, short hair, very career-minded, with plans and goals. Stock brokers, military officers, IT professionals, etc would fit in this category. This is the type she is drawn to for a LTR/marriage. This is me.
The other is the artstic type - musicians, writers, singers, painters, photographers, comedians, etc. Appearance is a bit disheveled, with longer hair, free and open clothing styles, with a lack of stability/career-focus. This is the type to have fun with, to go out with to fun events, etc. Her work as a writer provides opportunities for associations with guys from this group.
No matter the category, she has certain likes that are consistent with both types: great sense of humor, stimulating conversation, genuine in interactions, loves & laughs, appreciates the good things, makes a good living/stable, physically endowed, tall, giving in bed, confident, can dance, good parent/husband, has hair.
Her universal dislikes are: selfishness, liars, cheaters (how ironic), self-grandiose behavior, beards, short, very overweight, bald, does not make good living, drugs, kid/ex/family drama, unstable, smokes, not well-endowed, body hair.
I suppose that I will always remain vigilant about any close associations that she may have with the artistic types, although her previous APs were from both camps. That was more than 10 yrs ago. So far so good.
Last edited by MAJDEATH; 02-24-2016 at 11:56 AM.