Re: wife mad - reasonable?
I tend to agree for those looking for something else causing her to react. I also think you would be. smart tp try to figure out where her reaction was coming from. From bitter personal experience I learned to quests be alert to hidden resentments. If you read a lot of posts that deal with WAW (walk away wife) or WW (wayward wife) the most common comment from the husband is they feel bewildered and blindsided. Their wife has been harboring resentments for years and then lashed out. In every case the husband says "why didn't you tell me" their wife's reply "I did you weren't listening".
Time to check under the hood and put the issue to rest. So, what else is going on in your marriage?