wife mad - reasonable?
married 10 years 2 kids. yesterday, i found out I got a job, the news that i have been waiting for for 3 months. I celebrated with my colleagues at lunch and had a few beers. I invited my wife and she thought I was a bit drunk. shortly she left to pick up kids from school. I later joined them, but the celebratory dinner we had planned was cancelled and basically we all just went to sleep and now getting bad vibes from her.
I feel she is overreacting as i simply had a few drinks to celebrate with colleagues, invited my wife to join (not excluded), and as planned was ready to go celebrate with fan from dinner. To put this in context, i rarely go out with work colleagues (far less than she), and certainly do not feel I chose them over my family on this occasion.