Re: Success with passive aggressive spouse
Many husbands do not feel like talking. I would not think twice about not answering my wife's phone call, and here he was courteous in sending you a text.
You indicate you are insecure and others suggest somewhat controlling. I hope you would agree that as long as it does not involve infidelity or unlawful conduct, he is entitled to go where he wants and can decide to get a donut and leave if there is a line without a detailed explanation. Rather than being passive aggressive, I think he was being disciplined and as pleasant as he could in not screaming when you asked for a detailed explanation without real cause.
"I'm at work and I know he's home. I get out early and I call him and he doesn't answer his phone. (I have trust issues and I hate when he does this Bc I know he had his phone on him). He doesn't answer the phone but he texts me right away. He eventually calls me and we talk. He tells me he has a big case to prepare for and he has to go get back to studying. In my gut I feel he is being shady. I ask him where are you? And he hesitates and tells me he's on route 30. So obviously he lied Bc he's not home he's driving. He tells me he is driving to Duncan donuts to get coffee. We hang up. I get home, and I see him studying at the table with a cup of coffee he made at home."