Join Date: Apr 2012
Location: Pacific Northwest
Re: Marriage crisis?? Advice needed!!!
In the context of a long term success in marriage thread, I don't have a lot of wisdom for you. Because, sooner or later, this is going to happen to you unless your spouse is one of the lucky few who won the genetic lottery.
If these are things under your spouse's control - weight gain, unkempt, unshaven, dirty clothes - then you owe it to your marriage to have a discussion about doing his best to remain attractive to you, within the framework nature provided. That his not caring will have repercussions down the road.
If these are things over which he has little control - wrinkles, balding, sagging and aging skin, graying hair - then the only real answer is for you is to buck up and come to grips with the reality of being human. Because, believe or not, the same things are happening to you, even if you don't see them in the mirror.