Re: Unable to sleep very well in the same bed anymore?
Have you tried melatonin? It can help you fall asleep, but won't keep you asleep. There are many OTC and prescription sleep aids, too, if you are willing to try them. Consider having a sleep study done to figure out what's going on. But what are the differences between your bed and your sofa (or the room they're in), other than your husband (or is it him?), that make the latter work better for you? Lighting? Noise? Inclination? Air flow? Firmness?
Perhaps try moving the sofa into the bedroom! If that works, get a new sofa for the living room.
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