Re: Maintaining Boundaries
Aine, I think the thread is still helpful.
It's true - only they can go on this journey together and decide what's best.
I personally get a bit disappointed when the combined efforts of posters here amounts to literally thousands of dollars worth of free advice/therapy/experience... and not applied/absorbed? .... Need a better word that doesn't sound too assuming.
I hope his wife does write here, but if not, there are other forums out there.
But to your point, yes. They don't owe us anything.
"If you deliberately plan on being less than you are capable of being, then I warn you that you'll be unhappy for the rest of your life."
~ Abraham Maslow