Re: ADVICE- I don't feel comfortable around husband's family!!
Just don't do anything they can use against you until you figure out your next direction. Don't say anything odd, don't make it more awkward with comments and with the grown children, always make yourself seem pleasant. If your pleasant it'll start to be obvious that it's them knowing to accept and not you starting conflicts. My spouses aunt cussed me out and of course I wanted to talk back but the best thing was to walk away, because no matter what I would've said, it would've been focused on more then what she said to me in the first place. Of course therapy does work as well.