07-10-2012, 10:57 AM
Join Date: Apr 2012
| | Re: Can chaotic dysfunctional relationships reverse?
Originally Posted by Confused99
at this point..no..but can that change?
Only if you both make a real effort to change the problematic dynamic between you both.
What's causing the drama? Is it some kind of immaturity within one or both of you? Are you both just excited by the drama? Are your conflict resolution skills and communication skills poor?
If you want to change, go to counseling or read some books about communication and relationships and start talking about it with each other a little more honestly so you can get to the source of the problem. If it's gratifying some need or desire, then it's just going to continue. If one or both of you do not actually want things to change or get better, then won't. If you ignore the problems, they just worsen. If it's a problem, tackle it head on and make sure that both of you are ready to deal with it.
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