I'm not talking about a marriage with a nagging wife and and a henpecked husband. I'm talking about a relationship where the wife openly says she is the boss, and the husband openly acknowledges it.
My wife of 16 years wants to go this route. We talked about it in the past, and experimented with it for trial periods. It had some real advantages, although it certainly wasn't perfect (I will elaborate later if people want to hear). It was more or less like her treating me like one of her children. But now she wants to go much further and says she wants me to be her "slave". And before anyone thinks this is some kinky leather game with whips and chains, she doesn't mean it like that. She doesn't read kinky erotica, has no interest in BDSM or reading "50 Shades of Gray". She just wants me to obey her all the time. I told her that I can't go to that extreme, at least not at this time.
I was wondering if anyone else here was in a similar situation, and if it worked out for you? And how did it work?
My Wife is definitely the Boss in our marriage, and She calls the shots in our house. I am Her fully subordinate husband, and completely under Her supervision in all areas of our marriage - outside the home and in the home, outside the bedroom and in the bedroom.
I know my place and do as I'm told or I answer to Her, and it has worked wonderfully throughout our 20 year marriage.
She controls the finances, manages the money, gives me an allowance, and if I want any additional money I must ask Her for it and explain myself, and it is then entirely up to Her whether She will grant my request or not.
She makes the decisions, often without consulting me, and when She does give me permission to give my input or opinion it is understood that She will make the final decision, and if we disagree on any thing She will over rule me.
My Wife holds me responsible for all of the domestic chores and household duties - grocery shopping, cooking, washing the dishes, doing the laundry, and the housekeeping, and She holds me accountable to Her for doing my husbandly household duties and housework to Her satisfaction.
She is loving and affectionate as long as I am man enough to know my place and remain Her properly submissive and obedient husband. Although She grants me sexual release and love making, She is totally in control of our sexual relationship and the bedroom, and I am often required to serve Her orally only, with no sexual release permitted by me.
Needless to say, while She is loving and affectionate, She is also a firm-Handed, no nonsense Disciplinarian. If She feels I have misbehaved or displeased Her any way She will not hesitate to take Her hairbrush or paddle to my bare husbandly behind and sternly scold me, then order me to the bedroom and keep my mouth shut until She gives me permission to come out.
It works for us! Neither of us would want it any other way.