For sure, every woman is different. My wife just turned 57 and had no symptoms of menopause. In fact, she was still having periods. She had an ovary removed because of a cyst 18 months ago. At that time the doctor knew that she had a fibroid on the outside of her uterus and the next step, if it became an issue, would be a total hysterectomy. That happened 4 weeks ago. (There were complications because of endometrial scarring, but that is another story.).
Here is the thing...no hot flashes. Even her doctor is a bit surprised. No mood swings. Now to be sure, she is still recovering from major abdominal surgery, but it may be that she shows no symptoms. Her mom was the same. One day she just realized that she had not had a period for a while. That was it. So maybe her daughter will be the same.
The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to "stand up for your rights." Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. 1 Corinthians 7:2 (The Message)