Re: Husband is 65 year old workaholic
You should encourage him to retire, or at least work part time, and find new hobbies and activities to consume his new found time. Hiking, bike riding, also be willing to do stuff he enjoys that maybe you dont, such as fishing or golf, that way hes getting to play a sport he loves and you get to spend time with him.
I hear a lot of wives complain their husband ignores them and never spends time with them but when hear they are wanting their husband to go dancing, or shopping i understand why their husband is avoiding them. Right now he enjoys he job, its rewarding to him, maybe he likes his co-workers etc, if you want him to give that up you need to offer him something as equally as rewarding.