Re: Post something positive about your marriage
I used to believe that marriage was hard. With my H it's never been hard though. He's a kind and very thoughtful person by nature, and he loves me wholeheartedly. It shows in everything he does, not just what he says. He's the most consistent person I know, and for a person like me who finds it hard to trust, he has managed to win me over again and again with his actions. He's a spiritual person and he's quite mature and wise even though I'm 3 years older than he is. I love that he has an innocence about him that I don't have.
We do things every day for one another that show we care. It can be a phone call or a back rub or a note, but it's something. We understand that life is way too short to hold grudges and resentments for mistakes we make. In almost 11 years I can count 2 fights (if you even want to call it that) we've had, and we didn't let 12 hours go by without resolving whatever it was. He has a willingness to get along and compromise, just like me. You would think with SO many things in common we would get on each others nerves, but it hasn't happened yet. We're even more passionate about one another now than we were 11 years ago.