About Me
- About *needaunderstand*
- I am a:
- Female
- Relationship Status
- Long Term Exclusive Relationship
- Length of time in current relationship:
- 4-8 yrs.
- Sexual Orientation
- Heterosexual
- Biography
- im a fun loving mother. who wants to help people any way that i can, and enjoys other peoples point of view from time to time.
- Location
- lincoln park, mi USA
- Interests
- movies, dogs, hiking, swimming, anything outdoors, and my daughter is my #1! :)
- Occupation
- direct care worker
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- mmgthaonlyone
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- *needaunderstand* liked post by Dollystanford On thread : Need advice- he's having emotional affairlost, confused, feels like he wants to explode = needs some space, not sure what he wants, loves you but not in love with you? co-workers have more opportunity for physical affairs than most. I...Liked On: 03-16-2013, 07:21 AM
Posted On: 03-16-2013, 07:18 AM*needaunderstand* liked post by chillymorn On thread : One more thread about no sexI agree with the others. but I know of more than a few couples where one of them is cheating and the other seems to be ok with it. the unwritten law in their marriage is don't flaunt it and I'll...Liked On: 08-26-2012, 10:47 AM
Posted On: 08-26-2012, 10:43 AM*needaunderstand* liked post by Kathrynthegreat On thread : One more thread about no sexYou are not going to get a single person on this site to say it's ok to cheat on your wife for not giving you sex. You need to work on her, work on yourself, (Married Man Sex Life | How to have the...Liked On: 08-26-2012, 10:34 AM
Posted On: 08-26-2012, 08:37 AM*needaunderstand* liked post by Racer On thread : Can friends ruin your relationship?Ruin? Nope, not really... It takes two to tango. I had one of my wife’s friends getting rather ‘inappropriate’ with me; Like flashing me, asking me if this polish dog was about the same size,...Liked On: 06-29-2012, 08:54 AM
Posted On: 06-25-2012, 03:07 PM*needaunderstand* liked post by Uptown On thread : Self-centered passive-aggressive husband driving me crazyNoMore, as we discussed today in PMs, I've read through all your threads and most of your other posts. I found that the behaviors you describe are classic traits of BPD (Borderline Personality...Liked On: 06-23-2012, 06:36 AM
Posted On: 04-12-2012, 10:32 PM*needaunderstand* liked post by LillyoftheValley On thread : Good News.My four day of silence seems to have "jolted" my husband into being nice again. It's very very hard with him, but I have learned that people are not who you think they are, or that they have...Liked On: 06-23-2012, 06:23 AM
Posted On: 06-23-2012, 03:32 AM*needaunderstand* liked post by 2ndchanc81370 On thread : starting over is so hardI agree with *needaunderstand* and Paladin. I feel for your wife, being a military wife is very very difficult and lonely. Women are vulnerable especially when the one person they love are far (not...Liked On: 06-13-2012, 04:19 AM
Posted On: 06-13-2012, 03:40 AM*needaunderstand* liked post by River1977 On thread : Giving up on him?um huh? I guess I don't understand the problem. So, what are you saying? He married you for regular, albeit passionless, coochie? You married him for easy companionship? You are not his...Liked On: 06-13-2012, 04:07 AM
Posted On: 06-13-2012, 04:01 AM*needaunderstand* liked post by Maricha75 On thread : His EA is over and we are R'ing. But he says Im SO different-he misses the 'old me'.It DOES make sense. I feel like that most days. I try not to let it affect me. Some days I succeed, others... not so much.Today, for instance, I had the thought of posting here :does anyone feel a...Liked On: 06-13-2012, 03:38 AM
Posted On: 06-12-2012, 08:15 PM*needaunderstand* liked post by Paladin On thread : starting over is so hardThe both of you would benefit from seeing individual counselors. After each of you gets some therapy time under your belts, pick a couples counselor that specializes in infidelity. You say its...Liked On: 06-13-2012, 03:22 AM
Posted On: 06-13-2012, 02:52 AM*needaunderstand* liked post by southern wife On thread : Ways to tell you're grown up!http://pleated-jeans.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/25-Ways-to-Tell-You-Are-Grown-Up.jpg http://pleated-jeans.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/25-Ways-to-Tell-You-Are-Grown-Up2.jpgLiked On: 06-13-2012, 02:44 AM
Posted On: 06-12-2012, 01:39 PM*needaunderstand* liked post by lamaga On thread : Do you find sex messy?Damn straight, Ari! And I don't understand when I hear about men who won't kiss their wives after blowjobs, or women who will not go down on their man after intercourse...I just don't get it.Liked On: 06-13-2012, 02:19 AM
Posted On: 06-12-2012, 04:29 PM*needaunderstand* liked post by Freak On a Leash On thread : What would put you off a woman as marriage material?I'm not looking for "marriage material". I am talking just a serious relationship. For me, just the act of being in a committed relationship is probably a deal breaker so I should just remain single....Liked On: 06-13-2012, 12:38 AM
Posted On: 06-12-2012, 11:27 PM*needaunderstand* liked post by nader On thread : anger managementoh there's no halting the sex life, at least on my end. I have to be severely miffed to not want sex. These things come and go, often it's set off by some 'event,' we'll fight for a day or two and...Liked On: 06-13-2012, 12:35 AM
Posted On: 06-13-2012, 12:21 AM*needaunderstand* liked post by synthetic On thread : Confessions of an ashamed, emotionally abusive husband....Ok now that I have given you that list, there's something I want to tell you: Your wife no longer feels she should limit her options by staying committed to you. This is a very common occurrence...Liked On: 06-13-2012, 12:19 AM
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