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- Female
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- Marriage
- Length of time in current relationship:
- 8-12 yrs.
- Sexual Orientation
- Heterosexual
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- IL
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- A Bit Much liked post by Waking up to life On thread : Waking up to life's updateI can relate. I have felt like death warmed over for the past few weeks. Literally I think about it and my heart begins to race and I can feel the blood draining from my face. So...when you told...Liked On: Today, 02:45 PM
Posted On: Yesterday, 11:53 PMA Bit Much liked post by 3Xnocharm On thread : Waking up to life's updateHaving your own place lined up is very empowering. I understand how it feels to dread "that" conversation. It was the scariest thing I have ever done, and I have done it twice. :( Just, rip off that...Liked On: Today, 02:44 PM
Posted On: Yesterday, 04:01 PMA Bit Much liked post by Waking up to life On thread : Waking up to life's updateThanks for thinking of me. I had planned to tell my H tomorrow, but due to several circumstances, I'm going to wait until next Fri the 24th. I get the keys to my apartment tomorrow, so I can start...Liked On: Today, 02:43 PM
Posted On: 05-16-2013, 08:40 PMA Bit Much liked post by EleGirl On thread : She loves me but wants to be friends?!?This relationship is a lot easier for you. You are not giving up anything really as you stay in your home. Have your friends, your community, your job, etc. And you gain her. But she is giving...Liked On: Yesterday, 02:11 PM
Posted On: Yesterday, 02:19 AMA Bit Much liked post by Jellybeans On thread : It’s not his daughterOphelia, if you're not down with this, then dump him. If you are ok with it, keep dating him.Liked On: Yesterday, 12:00 PM
Posted On: Yesterday, 11:29 AMA Bit Much liked post by T&T On thread : Was this wrong of me to do?True, but at some point had to meet him in REAL life. I would think so anyways... :rofl:Liked On: 05-16-2013, 04:14 PM
Posted On: 05-16-2013, 04:11 PMA Bit Much liked post by Prodigal On thread : Wife doesn't treat me well and wants kids.I read the entire thread. Sounds like a no-win situation for you. Sadly, there are dynamics in play here that are, in part, elements of a sadomasochistic relationship. And such relationships...Liked On: 05-16-2013, 12:09 PM
Posted On: 05-15-2013, 06:27 PMA Bit Much liked post by unbelievable On thread : Flirting - do I need to change?Sure, if someone's wearing a name tag, I smile and address them by their name. If someone is cleaning a restroom and the place looks outstanding, I mention how great the place looks. There's a guy...Liked On: 05-16-2013, 12:07 PM
Posted On: 05-16-2013, 12:05 PMA Bit Much liked post by Prodigal On thread : Secrets and Lies - Help!I would suggest you quit confronting him. He'll just go underground with the lies. I'd suggest you investigate without his knowledge. I'd be checking all social media he uses, his cell phone bill,...Liked On: 05-16-2013, 11:52 AM
Posted On: 05-15-2013, 05:28 PMA Bit Much liked post by Kermitty On thread : What is the difference between resentment and hurt?All true and well said. Thanks. I think you made a good point in saying sometimes a relationship is forever changed. It may help me to think of this as a different relationship that i have to grow...Liked On: 05-15-2013, 10:40 AM
Posted On: 05-15-2013, 10:37 AMA Bit Much liked post by 3Xnocharm On thread : Why constantly threaten divorce? Now I've said "Do it. I don't care anymore"Trust me, I have been in that position, and I understand it does suck. But, you HAVE to look out for your own best interest. You get through it. What do you think would be different if you decide to...Liked On: 05-15-2013, 08:57 AM
Posted On: 05-15-2013, 07:59 AMA Bit Much liked post by Blue Firefly On thread : Why does he never get jealous!??There are other ways to handle the situation without resorting to anger/aggression. I've slid my arm around my wife, pulled her tight against me, looked her in the eyes and said "you're mine babe;...Liked On: 05-13-2013, 03:30 PM
Posted On: 05-13-2013, 03:27 PMA Bit Much liked post by unbelievable On thread : My wife always says "I would like you to" - I am overreacting?There very well might come a day where you'd give anything to hear your wife ask you to take the trash out again. Neither of you will be here forever.Liked On: 05-13-2013, 10:44 AM
Posted On: 05-13-2013, 10:41 AMA Bit Much liked post by unbelievable On thread : When to say "when"?Tell him he's absolutely right. You aren't his keeper. You're his wife. You didn't sign on to be hitched to a stoned half-husband or quarter husband. If he wishes to lose more of his life...Liked On: 05-08-2013, 09:17 AM
Posted On: 05-06-2013, 03:20 PMA Bit Much liked post by Hope4thebest On thread : Driving me crazy...This is def going to be a topic of discussion in counseling next week.. I dont like turmoil and I feel it brewing every time it is time for the kids to go to their dad's.. Again.. I dont mind...Liked On: 05-07-2013, 12:30 PM
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