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- About A Bit Much
- I am a:
- Female
- Relationship Status
- Marriage
- Length of time in current relationship:
- 8-12 yrs.
- Sexual Orientation
- Heterosexual
- Location
- IL
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- A Bit Much liked post by KathyBatesel On thread : I don't know what to do anymoreIt does explain things better. After reading this and understanding that there's a long history of this and it's not a new thing, I'm going to reverse all that I said above and tell you that...Liked On: 04-10-2013, 02:27 PM
Posted On: 04-10-2013, 02:23 PMA Bit Much liked post by Mavash. On thread : OK. Talk me down...Sociopath is a good word.Liked On: 04-10-2013, 02:04 PM
Posted On: 04-10-2013, 02:01 PMA Bit Much liked post by Therealbrighteyes On thread : Wife's Parents Want to Buy Her a HouseThey have terrible legal representation if they are saying that legally this would stand up in court. California is a community property state and any assets acquired during the marriage is divided...Liked On: 04-10-2013, 01:56 PM
Posted On: 04-10-2013, 01:55 PMA Bit Much liked post by KathyBatesel On thread : OK. Talk me down...Schedule a locksmith to come change the locks, and let him know if his stuff isn't gone before that time, it will be left out on the porch in the days to follow.Liked On: 04-10-2013, 01:55 PM
Posted On: 04-10-2013, 01:53 PMA Bit Much liked post by norajane On thread : I took him for granted and now he's leavingI just don't think that "the kids" is a good way to convince him of anything. Her focus has been all about "the kids" up until now, so pushing anything because of "the kids" is only going to make...Liked On: 04-10-2013, 01:49 PM
Posted On: 04-10-2013, 01:46 PMA Bit Much liked post by norajane On thread : When I travel for work, we "fight all the time"I used to do a LOT of traveling for work myself as a woman, so my perspective is a little different, but not much. It was always a challenge coming home and picking up, emotionally, from where I...Liked On: 04-10-2013, 12:13 PM
Posted On: 04-10-2013, 12:11 PMA Bit Much liked post by dubsey On thread : OK. Talk me down...just roll your eyes, shrug your shoulders, and let it go. It's not worth 2 seconds of your thoughts. You know he lies. They're not your problem anymore.Liked On: 04-10-2013, 10:19 AM
Posted On: 04-10-2013, 10:19 AMA Bit Much liked post by Mavash. On thread : Boundaries/Transparency in Non-marriage relationshipsJust know that at the end of the day what matters most is not how everyone here sets boundaries but what you personality okay or not okay with. Plenty of couples have OSF with no problems. Others...Liked On: 04-10-2013, 09:53 AM
Posted On: 04-10-2013, 09:49 AMA Bit Much liked post by COguy On thread : Boundaries/Transparency in Non-marriage relationshipsAlso wanted to point out that I think you are really lucky and that that type of thing is not normal, at least from my experience.Liked On: 04-10-2013, 09:53 AM
Posted On: 04-10-2013, 09:47 AMA Bit Much liked post by Chris Taylor On thread : A Mix of Issues...Some Her Fault, Some MineAs much as you think you are, you're not there for her. You have your job, side jobs, hobbies, etc... what do you really do with her? Helping on her project to her is just more "work" you are...Liked On: 04-09-2013, 01:15 PM
Posted On: 04-09-2013, 01:06 PMA Bit Much liked post by anonym On thread : Sometimes it just takes listening to familywow just got a text of her asking me on a date to one of my favorite restaraunts. That is unusual. Thank you cousin!Liked On: 04-09-2013, 01:04 PM
Posted On: 04-09-2013, 01:01 PMA Bit Much liked post by 3Xnocharm On thread : The silent treatmentAt this point in your relationship, does it really matter? You know this game. My suggestion would be to tell him that you are over his silent treatment, and then just ignore him.Liked On: 04-09-2013, 09:18 AM
Posted On: 04-09-2013, 08:50 AMA Bit Much liked post by Mavash. On thread : I took him for granted and now he's leavingI don't think there is anyone else he's just done and has been for quite a while.Liked On: 04-08-2013, 01:16 PM
Posted On: 04-08-2013, 12:32 PMA Bit Much liked post by unbelievable On thread : I took him for granted and now he's leavingThis guy is a planner. He quietly and independently planned his move a year out. He's a guy. He solves problems independently, not inclusively, like a woman. To feel "safe" he needs the time and...Liked On: 04-05-2013, 08:50 AM
Posted On: 04-04-2013, 10:36 PMA Bit Much liked post by norajane On thread : I took him for granted and now he's leavingUgh, I dunno. Leading with the kids and talking only about the kids and being all about when he can see the kids...just puts him in the same role he's been in, an adjunct to the kids. I...Liked On: 04-05-2013, 08:50 AM
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