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AFEH AFEH is offline

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Last Activity: 12-20-2012 10:21 AM

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  • About AFEH
    I am a:
    Male
    Relationship Status
    Separated
    Length of time in current relationship:
    40-50 yrs.
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Interests
    Squash tennis badminton photography sitting outside cafes chatting with friends
    Occupation
    Semi retired

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  • Last Activity: 12-20-2012 10:21 AM
  • Join Date: 05-18-2010

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  1. AFEH
    AFEH liked post by SimplyAmorous On thread : Can women be "nice girls"?
    One of my best GF's would be considered a NICE LADY by all... she is helpful, considerate, she gives you her time, praises people... but the dark side to her is this... when you cross her, if she...
    Liked On: 12-20-2012, 10:00 AM
    Posted On: 12-20-2012, 09:06 AM
  2. AFEH
    AFEH liked post by Toffer On thread : Wifes Sudden Change
    "She is planning an overnight trip out of town with this groupl of people in the coming months for a music concert. It's not giving me a warm and fuzzy feeling" DING! DING! DING! - Warning Will...
    Liked On: 12-12-2012, 07:23 AM
    Posted On: 12-12-2012, 07:14 AM
  3. AFEH
    AFEH liked post by east2west On thread : "Sounds like you need to start with someone new..."
    Also how does "expressing that you need her more" and trying to coerce her into making out fit into the MAP?
    Liked On: 12-12-2012, 03:47 AM
    Posted On: 12-11-2012, 11:08 AM
  4. AFEH
    AFEH liked post by thunderstruck On thread : "Sounds like you need to start with someone new..."
    Yes, the author states something along the lines of the MAP not working if you have a flawed W. In my case, running the MAP has somewhat helped, but it also uppped my W's anxiety/depression. On...
    Liked On: 12-12-2012, 03:46 AM
    Posted On: 12-11-2012, 03:00 PM
  5. AFEH
    AFEH liked post by donny64 On thread : "Sounds like you need to start with someone new..."
    She's trying to establish boundaries with you. She's testing. The boundaries of how much crap she can give, and how little affection she has to put out. Next time she says something like that,...
    Liked On: 12-12-2012, 03:46 AM
    Posted On: 12-11-2012, 05:27 PM
  6. AFEH
    AFEH liked post by unbelievable On thread : Had a talk with my BPD wife last night
    If you are willing to tolerate any kind of behavior, a better question would be, "why"? The natural result of setting any standard is that someone might transgress and you'll either be forced to...
    Liked On: 12-06-2012, 07:32 AM
    Posted On: 12-06-2012, 07:18 AM
  7. AFEH
    AFEH liked post by that_girl On thread : Becoming the Alpha
    YES. Manning up. Ie: having strong boundaries of self. Alpha, Beta...whatever. It's about boundaries.
    Liked On: 11-25-2012, 10:23 AM
    Posted On: 11-25-2012, 10:20 AM
  8. AFEH
    AFEH liked post by Caribbean Man On thread : Promiscuous Behavior from being hurt
    Its a type of control / defence mechanism. The multiple sex partners make her feel a sense of empowerment. But in reality she's not dealing with the unresolved issues from her past.
    Liked On: 11-22-2012, 12:23 PM
    Posted On: 11-22-2012, 10:35 AM
  9. AFEH
    AFEH liked post by Gangland On thread : Becoming the Alpha
    To knock the nice guy thing out.. The reason that gets such a bad rep is because when women are telling you you are a doormat and they're aren't attracted to you they use this phrase: "You're...
    Liked On: 11-22-2012, 12:05 PM
    Posted On: 11-22-2012, 11:58 AM
  10. AFEH
    AFEH liked post by moxy On thread : Do women actually like over the top, cheesy, unbelievable romance?
    Stealthily giving her what she needs from you (or needed from you or needed in general) isn't going to help. You can't nice her out of an affair; that will just push her to justify that you are...
    Liked On: 10-02-2012, 05:20 AM
    Posted On: 10-02-2012, 01:02 AM
  11. AFEH
    AFEH liked post by nomoretogive On thread : Nice Guy
    Obviously, we'll never know the whole story and there's been lots of great speculation on this thread -- lots of points that are so dead-on it's scary how smart everyone here is -- but I too wonder...
    Liked On: 08-03-2012, 03:37 AM
    Posted On: 08-02-2012, 11:56 PM
  12. AFEH
    AFEH liked post by Thor On thread : Lies about past before Marrage
    I think you are in a tough spot with her. She has a different view of honesty than you do. Her world view is one which allows lies if they are protective of her. The reason you feel so unbalanced...
    Liked On: 07-30-2012, 11:15 AM
    Posted On: 07-30-2012, 10:37 AM
  13. AFEH
    AFEH liked post by SimplyAmorous On thread : How emotional are you?
    I definitely feel it is Healthy... if one is feeling strong emotions... to be ABLE to let loose & allow a tear to show... with those we are the closest to in this world..., those we have shared the...
    Liked On: 07-27-2012, 08:05 AM
    Posted On: 07-26-2012, 05:29 PM
  14. AFEH
    AFEH liked post by deejov On thread : Switching off from work
    work gives me a real sense of satisfaction, accomplishment, etc. But when I found something else that also did that... I did better at finding a work\life balance. For me, it was climbing...
    Liked On: 07-24-2012, 04:13 AM
    Posted On: 07-23-2012, 06:49 AM
  15. AFEH
    AFEH liked post by that_girl On thread : Is it over?
    Did you both have any real closure? A memorial service? Anything? My friend who lost her baby at 34 weeks had a memorial a year later with just her husband and some friends/family. They...
    Liked On: 07-20-2012, 02:06 PM
    Posted On: 07-15-2012, 01:38 AM
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