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- bandit.45 liked post by costa200 On thread : Wife seeing ex-boyfriendAnyone who thinks that the "just friends" crap is for real doesn't deserve consideration anyway. Finally... A guy who acts like he has some... Well done Awake1974.Liked On: 07-09-2012, 06:27 PM
Posted On: 07-08-2012, 01:24 PMbandit.45 liked post by LongIslander On thread : Please Help MeI have been firm and have told her that her answers are illogical. But she has not and won't change her story; she insists it is the truth. I told her I still don't believe her and basically she says...Liked On: 07-09-2012, 06:12 PM
Posted On: 07-09-2012, 04:34 PMbandit.45 liked post by Gabriel On thread : Don't know what to do..please help lost!!!No 40+ year old kisses and cuddles only. That's laughable. Especially for "weeks". Um, no. No way.Liked On: 07-09-2012, 06:10 PM
Posted On: 07-09-2012, 02:07 PMbandit.45 liked post by badbane On thread : Don't know what to do..please help lost!!!Okay I need to hear from you that A.) you understand an realize that is is not just an EA. She slept with this OM. She is using trickle truth to try and save some dignity. B) STOP BEING NICE. SHE...Liked On: 07-09-2012, 06:10 PM
Posted On: 07-09-2012, 01:58 PMbandit.45 liked post by happyman64 On thread : I need help really, really bad.And Larry, When you are at counselling with your wife please remember to tell her this: Your own words and I think she needs to hear them, Good Luck at counselling Larry.Liked On: 07-09-2012, 06:08 PM
Posted On: 07-09-2012, 07:24 AMbandit.45 liked post by hurtingbadly On thread : Looks like it's over.That's just it. You could just divorce, but you'll still wonder what the truth is. I get that. And yes! You're only 24?!? MOVE ON! You have your whole life ahead of you! I'm assuming no kids?...Liked On: 07-09-2012, 06:01 PM
Posted On: 07-09-2012, 03:00 PMbandit.45 liked post by JustAnotherGuy On thread : Looks like it's over.Because I'd like the truth for once in our marriage. Also: I recall having seen a conversation with my wife and her cousin in which she stated "Oh well, dude has money, and plenty of it"....Liked On: 07-09-2012, 06:01 PM
Posted On: 07-09-2012, 02:43 PMbandit.45 liked post by bigtimemess On thread : Just found out about my wife's affairNewM while I don't disagree I have laid out the groundwork if she wants to. I do not think she wants to, but it is on the table and I will be the ultimate judge of whether it is good for me and my...Liked On: 07-09-2012, 05:30 PM
Posted On: 07-09-2012, 04:29 PMbandit.45 liked post by NewM On thread : Just found out about my wife's affairAfter all those lies you are willing to reconcile? She just wants to reconcile because you are getting better deal from divorce,if it wasn't the case OM would already be in your house with your...Liked On: 07-09-2012, 05:30 PM
Posted On: 07-09-2012, 04:20 PMbandit.45 liked post by Shaggy On thread : Don't know what to do..please help lost!!!The first thing you should be doing right now exposing the affair. Inform: 1. Her work HR 2. All close friends 3. Famil, especially her mother. 4. Exposé to anyone you know at her work, ...Liked On: 07-09-2012, 01:50 PM
Posted On: 07-09-2012, 01:45 PMbandit.45 liked post by Shaggy On thread : Please Help MeI think you should also tell her that any contact , any at all. and you will ask her to leave. Even after 30 years you will not tolerate any contact at all with him. Posted via Mobile DeviceLiked On: 07-09-2012, 01:47 PM
Posted On: 07-09-2012, 01:12 PMbandit.45 liked post by cantthinkstraight On thread : Please Help MeThe only reason she still has feelings for him is because she wasn't outed properly when you first found out about it. Take a day off from work - both of you. Hash out every detail you need to...Liked On: 07-09-2012, 01:46 PM
Posted On: 07-09-2012, 12:37 PMbandit.45 liked post by AngryandUsed On thread : Please Help MeShe still has feelings for him. Your story sounds similar to mine.Liked On: 07-09-2012, 01:46 PM
Posted On: 07-09-2012, 11:58 AMbandit.45 liked post by badbane On thread : Newlywed, Wife confessedOkay the 30 yr old virgin story. Really how easy it is to tell this lie to a woman. Profess that he thinks she is the ONE. Then he bangs her brains out and moves on. Then he finds the next woman get...Liked On: 07-09-2012, 01:44 PM
Posted On: 07-09-2012, 01:27 PMbandit.45 liked post by Dollystanford On thread : The new guyyou are in exactly the same place I am my friend - I'm still waiting to feel depressed and sad about it but that hasn't happened yet I'm enjoying being single and not having to deal with anyone's...Liked On: 07-09-2012, 01:25 PM
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