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bandit.45 liked post by Fvstringpicker On thread : How Much Detail?I'm just curious if anybody here thinks they should reconcile. If you read both her and her husbands post, it's obvious that, regardless what they claim, they don't love each other. She is at least...Liked On: 06-14-2012, 11:31 PM
Posted On: 06-14-2012, 10:38 PM bandit.45 liked post by oregonmom On thread : Wife's affair, how to move forward?I'm sorry, I have to chime in here. EI, I dare you, DARE YOU, to live through the sh!t my WH put me through BEFORE his affair. I have read everything you wrote. If you were justified to have an...Liked On: 06-14-2012, 11:30 PM
Posted On: 06-14-2012, 11:21 PM bandit.45 liked post by warlock07 On thread : I love my wife, but twice will destroy us.One thing though, I felt happy that the OP beat the **** out of OM. Too often, BS don't assault OM's out of concern for their kids(and rightly so). But reading that felt good. I read it twice.Liked On: 06-14-2012, 11:23 PM
Posted On: 06-14-2012, 02:25 PM bandit.45 liked post by tacoma On thread : I love my wife, but twice will destroy us.Bandit is on the money here. The way she hooked up with the OM is perhaps the most disrespectful tryst I've ever heard of on these forums. She doesn't respect you, she doesn't desire you, you...Liked On: 06-14-2012, 11:22 PM
Posted On: 06-14-2012, 08:59 AM bandit.45 liked post by tacoma On thread : I love my wife, but twice will destroy us.Remorse is a constant whether the affair is a topic at the moment or not. Being nice is something they do to make you stop talking/thinking about what they did. It`s not really being nice, it`s a...Liked On: 06-14-2012, 11:19 PM
Posted On: 06-14-2012, 07:19 PM bandit.45 liked post by morituri On thread : Wife's affair, how to move forward?Maybe I'm wrong but it wouldn't surprise me that when they were both younger, she was the LD spouse while he was the HD spouse. And as it happens in many marriages, when they both grew older, her...Liked On: 06-14-2012, 11:06 PM
Posted On: 06-14-2012, 10:43 PM bandit.45 liked post by morituri On thread : Wife's affair, how to move forward?Why can the two of them hire a divorce mediator and have him/her file an uncontested divorce where none of the marital assets gets liquidated until the death of one or one of them remarries and/or...Liked On: 06-14-2012, 11:06 PM
Posted On: 06-14-2012, 10:31 PM bandit.45 liked post by Vanguard On thread : Wife's affair, how to move forward?Love doesn't wither and die until you let it. Your ability to love is determined by your own personal being, not someone else's.Liked On: 06-14-2012, 11:06 PM
Posted On: 06-14-2012, 11:02 PM bandit.45 liked post by iheartlife On thread : Wife's affair, how to move forward?I said it already, it is rather mystifying. She was essentially caught and trickle truthed like a champ to the bitter end. She will not let go of the idea that she was justified in having an affair...Liked On: 06-14-2012, 10:12 PM
Posted On: 06-14-2012, 10:02 PM bandit.45 liked post by morituri On thread : Wife's affair, how to move forward?Your wife is going to find out that sex without love can get old pretty fast. For every man out there wanting to share his life with her, there are 1,000 or more men just wanting to use her body for...Liked On: 06-14-2012, 10:11 PM
Posted On: 06-14-2012, 09:50 PM bandit.45 liked post by Maricha75 On thread : Wife's affair, how to move forward?Sounds like a bad soap opera.... my dad actually came up with something like that. "As the Stomach Churns"..and really, this whole thing does make my stomach churn....leaves a bad taste in my mouth,...Liked On: 06-14-2012, 08:17 PM
Posted On: 06-14-2012, 08:02 PM bandit.45 liked post by iheartlife On thread : Wife's affair, how to move forward?Complexity, I totally appreciate your asking this question, and I hope the OP answers it. But it does sort of beg the question, why does she want to reconcile now? What is the point, if he is such...Liked On: 06-14-2012, 07:33 PM
Posted On: 06-14-2012, 06:51 PM bandit.45 liked post by gpa On thread : Wife's affair, how to move forward?So EI your husband worked for so many years having to bring home food for seven people. I can't imagine how many hours had to work every day. Can y tell us? Have y ever asked him if he had the...Liked On: 06-14-2012, 07:33 PM
Posted On: 06-14-2012, 06:50 PM bandit.45 liked post by morituri On thread : Wife's affair, how to move forward?As others have pointed out, your refusal for NC with the OM for fear of hurting his feelings speaks volumes as to you reluctance to work to salvage the marriage. For this reason, as well as lack of...Liked On: 06-14-2012, 07:28 PM
Posted On: 06-14-2012, 06:19 PM bandit.45 liked post by LostWifeCrushed On thread : I love my wife, but twice will destroy us.Oh my gosh I feel for you. The 180 stuff is only there to protect your heart. To get you to meet your own needs for a while so you can see what she is bringing to the table. I see it as just a way to...Liked On: 06-14-2012, 07:20 PM
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