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bandit.45 liked post by lordmayhem On thread : Confused need helpI like the idea of the handwritten letter. It gives the impression of sincerity, so people are less likely to think that Gator2012 only forced her to do it.Liked On: 05-28-2012, 08:51 AM
Posted On: 05-28-2012, 08:50 AM bandit.45 liked post by highwood On thread : Who do you blame most for affair - your spouse or AP?Great question...some of the answers on here have helped me. I do find myself harboring immense anger at the OW..and H as well. I realize from those comments though that, as others have stated...Liked On: 05-28-2012, 08:45 AM
Posted On: 05-28-2012, 08:44 AM bandit.45 liked post by Maricha75 On thread : Falling in Love with a Friend's HusbandGoogle: Marriage counselors [my city] then hit enter. It really is that simple. Then, you call to see how much they charge, and go from there. I have to admit, when I read what you did... kissing...Liked On: 05-28-2012, 08:43 AM
Posted On: 05-28-2012, 08:38 AM bandit.45 liked post by lordmayhem On thread : Who do you blame most for affair - your spouse or AP?:iagree: Same here. My WW did most of the pursuing, and it looks like he just responded. She even joked with him in one of her messages, telling him he moves too slow.Liked On: 05-28-2012, 08:42 AM
Posted On: 05-28-2012, 08:38 AM bandit.45 liked post by lordmayhem On thread : Confused need helpI'm assuming that's one of your conditions for R that she has to meet. Because that's one of the most damaging and hurtful things about affairs, when the WS demonizes the BS to themselves and to...Liked On: 05-28-2012, 08:41 AM
Posted On: 05-28-2012, 08:36 AM bandit.45 liked post by LeighRichwood On thread : Who do you blame most for affair - your spouse or AP?As for where the blame for the whole affair lies - it lies equally with both parties because both of them knew that he was married and that it was wrong. As for where the blame for the lying to me...Liked On: 05-28-2012, 08:34 AM
Posted On: 05-28-2012, 07:09 AM bandit.45 liked post by I'mInLoveWithMyHubby On thread : Falling in Love with a Friend's HusbandYou are making a whole lot of excuses to justify your actions/thoughts. Wrong thing to do. The excuses needs to stop immediately. If your unhappy in your marriage, either fix it or divorce your...Liked On: 05-28-2012, 08:22 AM
Posted On: 05-28-2012, 08:21 AM bandit.45 liked post by Will_Kane On thread : Confused need helpMy reputation as a nurse will be tarnished FOREVER! I am a nervous wreck tbh that is why I am on here. I can't sleep, eat or even think clearly. Her marriage is secondary to this. She has planned...Liked On: 05-28-2012, 08:21 AM
Posted On: 05-28-2012, 08:19 AM bandit.45 liked post by Almostrecovered On thread : 2 years ago today...I am reading Bandit's story, but I'm not sure if I want to include that orgy he is planningLiked On: 05-28-2012, 08:09 AM
Posted On: 05-26-2012, 07:16 AM bandit.45 liked post by warlock07 On thread : Confused need helpYour version gives a much better view on what she did.(We even had to pull out the 2 D-days from her). 4 D-days are 3 too many. Will you be able to trust her again? Flaunting the affair in your...Liked On: 05-28-2012, 08:01 AM
Posted On: 05-28-2012, 08:00 AM bandit.45 liked post by Count of Monte Cristo On thread : How did you find out about the infidelity?My ex seemed really surprised when I pointed out that she controlled the sex in our marriage. She determined when and if we had sex -- and the kind of sex that we had. I think she falls into the...Liked On: 05-27-2012, 10:54 PM
Posted On: 05-27-2012, 09:31 PM bandit.45 liked post by lovelygirl On thread : How did you find out about the infidelity?We all know they shouldn't have the boyfriend in the first place. That's not news to anyone. I was just trying to guess and assume what goes into these women's minds. And yes, what I said COULD...Liked On: 05-27-2012, 10:54 PM
Posted On: 05-27-2012, 08:03 PM bandit.45 liked post by lovelygirl On thread : How did you find out about the infidelity?It could be that some women think that certain sexual acts are shameful and they feel embarrassed to perform them on their husbands so they choose to do it with their lovers/boyfriends. If they...Liked On: 05-27-2012, 10:53 PM
Posted On: 05-27-2012, 07:34 PM bandit.45 liked post by 52flower On thread : a saying ive heardI agree, very messed up. My parents were married 60 years after being set up. Neither could face causing each other unhappiness. They just couldn't see each other sad, especially when they caused...Liked On: 05-27-2012, 09:11 PM
Posted On: 05-27-2012, 09:05 PM bandit.45 liked post by morituri On thread : How did you find out about the infidelity?There were some cheating wives who were interviewed in anonymity. A few stated that they did sex acts with their OM that they didn't do with their husbands because either their husbands were not...Liked On: 05-27-2012, 08:52 PM
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