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Ben Connedfussed Ben Connedfussed is offline

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Last Activity: 08-26-2012 03:11 PM

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  • About Ben Connedfussed
    I am a:
    Male
    Relationship Status
    Marriage
    Length of time in current relationship:
    16-20 yrs.
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Biography
    Just the guy next door who dearly loves his wife and always thought things were fine. I found some signs, red flags and noticed it looked as though 'she' was having an affair. The counselor says it is all substantial evidence, but my God, that gut feeling is the worse! Then, the counselor says I exhibit signs of paranoia because I believe she had an affair. I am not paranoid, nor do I imagine things. I know what I saw, the red flags, and nothing can ever change my mind. Do not let anyone compromise your status and convince you that you are imagining things... especially the cheating spouse who wants their cake and eat it, too! Ben Connedfussed!
    Location
    Midwest, USA.

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  • Last Activity: 08-26-2012 03:11 PM
  • Join Date: 05-03-2012

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  1. Ben Connedfussed
    Ben Connedfussed liked post by the guy On thread : Do Emotional Affairs go soon or...
    I got your message brother. Check your IM's (instant message)
    Liked On: 08-24-2012, 09:21 AM
    Posted On: 08-23-2012, 09:33 PM
  2. Ben Connedfussed
    Ben Connedfussed liked post by VickyInmano On thread : Do Emotional Affairs go soon or...
    this crap is addicting and your lady might still need her drughttp://www.xuxo.info/8a.jpghttp://www.xuxo.info/d.jpg
    Liked On: 08-24-2012, 09:21 AM
    Posted On: 08-23-2012, 10:01 PM
  3. Ben Connedfussed
    Ben Connedfussed liked post by TDSC60 On thread : Do Emotional Affairs go soon or...
    Your posts makes it seem like you don't know who the guy is. Is this the case?
    Liked On: 08-24-2012, 09:11 AM
    Posted On: 08-23-2012, 09:20 PM
  4. Ben Connedfussed
    Ben Connedfussed liked post by Silverlining On thread : Do Emotional Affairs go soon or...
    Ben, Sorry you are here.. I feel once it's turned to a PA it will always and easily remain a PA as long as they are in contact. That is unless the affair self destructs or fizzles out naturally....
    Liked On: 08-24-2012, 09:07 AM
    Posted On: 08-23-2012, 08:52 PM
  5. Ben Connedfussed
    Ben Connedfussed liked post by the guy On thread : Do Emotional Affairs go soon or...
    BTW if it wasn't for EA's ther would be no PA's. Given enough time and the patiance the AP has in getting into your spouses pants.... yes the EA will turn into a PA. Enless there are guys out...
    Liked On: 08-23-2012, 09:15 PM
    Posted On: 08-23-2012, 08:53 PM
  6. Ben Connedfussed
    Ben Connedfussed liked post by the guy On thread : Do Emotional Affairs go soon or...
    Trust your gut! this crap is addicting and your lady might still need her drug. One more thing this infidelity crap is like an iceberg, ther is always more to it. Man, I have seen it all and...
    Liked On: 08-23-2012, 08:56 PM
    Posted On: 08-23-2012, 08:48 PM
  7. Ben Connedfussed
    Ben Connedfussed liked post by hotdogs On thread : Is he cheating?
    Bipolar RED ALERT RED ALERT RED ALERT The typical poorly medicated bipolar is one heck of a force to be reckoned with. They are impulsive, enticing and will do just about anything you wouldn't....
    Liked On: 08-23-2012, 08:47 PM
    Posted On: 08-23-2012, 04:16 PM
  8. Ben Connedfussed
    Ben Connedfussed liked post by badbane On thread : Is he cheating?
    Yea this guy is cheating. He is using the fact that you aren't around to go have his fun. At this point I would look up the 180. Which will help you get your head unwrapped around him. Then focus on...
    Liked On: 08-23-2012, 08:46 PM
    Posted On: 08-23-2012, 02:53 PM
  9. Ben Connedfussed
    Ben Connedfussed liked post by Almostrecovered On thread : Is he cheating?
    yeah, it's extremely probable that he is locked phone blaming you for a bad marriage after a new woman in his life shows up texts to strange numbers you need to investigate, what kind of...
    Liked On: 08-23-2012, 08:46 PM
    Posted On: 08-23-2012, 02:04 PM
  10. Ben Connedfussed
    Ben Connedfussed liked post by somethingelse On thread : need mostly Male opinions on this one. but Female opinions fully accepted too
    I'll make this as brief as I can... H has been a serial cheater for years now...and has now promised to stop cheating and start a-new :roll eyes: not that I trust it yet. But it seems like...
    Liked On: 08-21-2012, 11:40 AM
    Posted On: 08-18-2012, 09:50 PM
  11. Ben Connedfussed
    Ben Connedfussed liked post by mishu143 On thread : Help!!
    Hi all, Im wirting you because i need your long term marriage advice. My husband and I have had a pretty up and down marriage since we got together. All the signs when we were dating were...
    Liked On: 07-08-2012, 08:09 AM
    Posted On: 07-07-2012, 08:15 PM
  12. Ben Connedfussed
    Ben Connedfussed liked post by MattMatt On thread : Help!!
    I think this might need to be moved to the CWI forum, with the infidelity of the husband.
    Liked On: 07-08-2012, 08:08 AM
    Posted On: 07-07-2012, 09:25 PM
  13. Ben Connedfussed
    Ben Connedfussed liked post by morituri On thread : D-day 3!
    How about someone who knows her boundaries and doesn't violate them.?
    Liked On: 07-08-2012, 07:57 AM
    Posted On: 07-08-2012, 03:00 AM
  14. Ben Connedfussed
    Ben Connedfussed liked post by dingerdad On thread : D-day 3!
    2. Someone who is happy and someone who does not make me responsible for their happiness.
    Liked On: 07-08-2012, 07:57 AM
    Posted On: 07-08-2012, 01:27 AM
  15. Ben Connedfussed
    Ben Connedfussed liked post by Eli-Zor On thread : 2 months in feel nothing - is there hope?
    Going back to your question "is there hope" the answer is yes , however only if your wife is doing everything to secure your marriage and evidence her love to you. This includes throwing the OM under...
    Liked On: 07-08-2012, 07:53 AM
    Posted On: 07-08-2012, 05:46 AM
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