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Last Activity: 08-14-2012 01:03 PM

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  • About Bluemoon1
    I am a:
    Male
    Relationship Status
    Marriage
    Length of time in current relationship:
    20-30 yrs.
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Biography
    A recovering nice guy from the sunny (LOL) north west of England, a supporter of Gods Own Football Club Manchester City FC.

    How I got here

    Like many guys, I thought being nice was the way to be, but could never work out why my wife kept rejecting me (sexually) and just feeding me the odd scrap of sex just to keep me in line, the less sex the nicer I got, I gave up begging and pleading years ago, I found passive aggression was easier, so on it went, until less became the normal, and I kind of accepted that I would be in a low sex marriage and my wife had convinced me things were normal, so I gave up, I put on weight smocked like a chimney, carried on creeping around her when I thought there might be a chance of sex.

    Then one day (I still don’t know how I found it) I stumbled upon Athol Kays Married Mans Sex Life site, it was an eye opener, it convinced me what I already knew that things were not right, sure we got on really well, in fact a little too well, too many people we were the model happy couple, but we (were/are) just roommates, and that is not what I want,

    So last New Year I set out to improve myself, lost some weight, started the gym, and I have just stopped smoking, I would love to say our sex life has improved, but alas not at all, but what has improved is me, and I will carry on trying to be the best man I can be
    Location
    UK
    Interests
    Football (Soccer) reading, music

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  • Last Activity: 08-14-2012 01:03 PM
  • Join Date: 03-29-2012

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  1. john_lord_b3
    john_lord_b3 liked post by Bluemoon1 On thread : Sex life is gone
    I share the OP's pain, (along with millions of men around the world I guess) and I am just starting to reclaim my life back after what I now realise was a virtual castration! There is something...
    Liked On: 02-18-2013, 12:51 AM
    Posted On: 03-31-2012, 01:55 PM
  2. DanglingDaisy
    DanglingDaisy liked post by Bluemoon1 On thread : When the OW is Ms right. Guys Help
    Very good post, particularly about marrying another version of the current spouse, I have seen it happen so many times, like you say rinse and repeat
    Liked On: 06-01-2012, 11:23 AM
    Posted On: 04-21-2012, 01:18 PM
  3. Browncoat
    Browncoat liked post by Bluemoon1 On thread : A break through but now what?
    The proof of the pudding is in the eating, as they say here in the UK. I have heard a similar thing, it just goes into my big book of excuses, and it's an easy thing to say, plus it gets her off...
    Liked On: 05-08-2012, 09:44 AM
    Posted On: 05-07-2012, 05:08 PM
  4. 7737
    7737 liked post by Bluemoon1 On thread : Hypothetical:
    To me that is one of the problems of living with a LD partner, in that they just don't see the problem, and even if it's mentioned to them they can't seem to comprehend what they are doing, I am sure...
    Liked On: 05-05-2012, 04:18 AM
    Posted On: 05-04-2012, 05:25 PM
  5. Accipiter777
    Accipiter777 liked post by Bluemoon1 On thread : Hypothetical:
    To me that is one of the problems of living with a LD partner, in that they just don't see the problem, and even if it's mentioned to them they can't seem to comprehend what they are doing, I am sure...
    Liked On: 05-04-2012, 09:39 PM
    Posted On: 05-04-2012, 05:25 PM
  6. Browncoat
    Browncoat liked post by Bluemoon1 On thread : Hypothetical:
    To me that is one of the problems of living with a LD partner, in that they just don't see the problem, and even if it's mentioned to them they can't seem to comprehend what they are doing, I am sure...
    Liked On: 05-04-2012, 05:35 PM
    Posted On: 05-04-2012, 05:25 PM
  7. Dollystanford
    Dollystanford liked post by Bluemoon1 On thread : Anyone wanna work out?
    My big sister lives in North Carolina, when I have gone over to visit her, I like to walk to the shops, I get lots of strange look, like what's that crazy Brit doing walking on the road, no such...
    Liked On: 05-04-2012, 05:02 PM
    Posted On: 05-04-2012, 04:58 PM
  8. Browncoat
    Browncoat liked post by Bluemoon1 On thread : Anyone wanna work out?
    My big sister lives in North Carolina, when I have gone over to visit her, I like to walk to the shops, I get lots of strange look, like what's that crazy Brit doing walking on the road, no such...
    Liked On: 05-04-2012, 05:00 PM
    Posted On: 05-04-2012, 04:58 PM
  9. Darkflower
    Darkflower liked post by Bluemoon1 On thread : Maximum age for fun sex?
    I beleive you have been given all the advice in another thread There is a time for discussing and planning but now is the time for action, stop *****ing about it and start improving yourself ...
    Liked On: 05-04-2012, 02:59 AM
    Posted On: 05-03-2012, 04:25 PM
  10. Darkflower
    Darkflower liked post by Bluemoon1 On thread : losing hope
    All men have a few options in low sex marriages 1. Put up with it, and live the rest of their lives with the constant hurt of rejection and broken trust, and live with the resentment, until their...
    Liked On: 05-03-2012, 03:01 AM
    Posted On: 05-02-2012, 02:42 PM
  11. FormerNiceGuy
    FormerNiceGuy liked post by Bluemoon1 On thread : losing hope
    All men have a few options in low sex marriages 1. Put up with it, and live the rest of their lives with the constant hurt of rejection and broken trust, and live with the resentment, until their...
    Liked On: 05-02-2012, 08:08 PM
    Posted On: 05-02-2012, 02:42 PM
  12. Dollystanford
    Dollystanford liked post by Bluemoon1 On thread : Anyone wanna work out?
    Funny thing my weight has not gone down for two weeks it has stayed the same, but my trousers and shirts are all getting far to big for me, my trainer told me I was putting on muscle and losing body...
    Liked On: 05-02-2012, 04:15 PM
    Posted On: 05-02-2012, 04:12 PM
  13. OldGirl
    OldGirl liked post by Bluemoon1 On thread : Anyone wanna work out?
    Funny thing my weight has not gone down for two weeks it has stayed the same, but my trousers and shirts are all getting far to big for me, my trainer told me I was putting on muscle and losing body...
    Liked On: 05-02-2012, 04:13 PM
    Posted On: 05-02-2012, 04:12 PM
  14. Cherry
    Cherry liked post by Bluemoon1 On thread : Non sexual touch and sex
    Well in that case just be honest with him then, perhaps he is after some spontaneous sex, remember that men are more easily aroused than women, if your up to 2/3 times a week he should not have to...
    Liked On: 05-02-2012, 03:51 PM
    Posted On: 05-02-2012, 03:49 PM
  15. donny64
    donny64 liked post by Bluemoon1 On thread : losing hope
    I hate to tell you this, but never ever, ever, and I mean ever ask a woman for advice in these situations, because what you will get is advice that is bound not to work, like "have a talk about it"...
    Liked On: 05-02-2012, 12:03 AM
    Posted On: 05-01-2012, 04:05 PM
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