A recovering nice guy from the sunny (LOL) north west of England, a supporter of Gods Own Football Club Manchester City FC.
How I got here
Like many guys, I thought being nice was the way to be, but could never work out why my wife kept rejecting me (sexually) and just feeding me the odd scrap of sex just to keep me in line, the less sex the nicer I got, I gave up begging and pleading years ago, I found passive aggression was easier, so on it went, until less became the normal, and I kind of accepted that I would be in a low sex marriage and my wife had convinced me things were normal, so I gave up, I put on weight smocked like a chimney, carried on creeping around her when I thought there might be a chance of sex.
Then one day (I still don’t know how I found it) I stumbled upon Athol Kays Married Mans Sex Life site, it was an eye opener, it convinced me what I already knew that things were not right, sure we got on really well, in fact a little too well, too many people we were the model happy couple, but we (were/are) just roommates, and that is not what I want,
So last New Year I set out to improve myself, lost some weight, started the gym, and I have just stopped smoking, I would love to say our sex life has improved, but alas not at all, but what has improved is me, and I will carry on trying to be the best man I can be