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Last Activity: 12-18-2012 09:38 PM

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  • About boxhead201
    I am a:
    Male
    Relationship Status
    Separated
    Length of time in current relationship:
    8-12 yrs.
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Location
    Hong Kong
    Occupation
    Computers

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  • Last Activity: 12-18-2012 09:38 PM
  • Join Date: 06-07-2012

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    boxhead201 liked post by synthetic On thread : Recently Seperated...
    The only way your marriage might work is if you actually give the impression that you are moving on. I know it's hard to understand, but in time you will. It took me years. I was stubborn.
    Liked On: 09-13-2012, 08:24 AM
    Posted On: 08-22-2012, 10:29 PM
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    boxhead201 liked post by jdlash On thread : I am struggling with the separation and don't know how to deal with it
    Why did he want a divorce? You said you jump back and forth between wanting him and not. Is that fear, or you really don't know? Stopping communication is simply willpower. Easier said then done,...
    Liked On: 09-12-2012, 08:54 PM
    Posted On: 09-10-2012, 08:35 PM
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    boxhead201 liked post by our vision shattered On thread : First day of seperating
    most important, the most important is listen to jdlash, this will be terrorizing for awhile, read our stories, find synthetics 10 commandments & follow them, soooooo important
    Liked On: 09-12-2012, 08:30 AM
    Posted On: 09-11-2012, 07:41 PM
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    boxhead201 liked post by jdlash On thread : First day of seperating
    DON"T beg, rationalize, or reason with her. Spend this time to figure out what part you had in the situation. The sooner you take this advice, the less damage you will do over the next few days. ...
    Liked On: 09-12-2012, 08:30 AM
    Posted On: 09-11-2012, 07:25 PM
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    boxhead201 liked post by LockeCPM4 On thread : Encouragement
    http://persephonemagazine.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/marriage1.jpg.pagespeed.ce.gS3LfwqajQ.jpg So... Very... True... Society does not respect marriage as a sacred institution anymore...
    Liked On: 09-09-2012, 04:28 AM
    Posted On: 09-01-2012, 02:52 PM
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    boxhead201 liked post by Miss Taken On thread : The Best Things About Being Separated
    None of us would have committed ourselves to a relationship or marriage with the intent of ending up separated or divorced so maybe, "the best" is not the best phrasing; however, not every post has...
    Liked On: 09-09-2012, 03:03 AM
    Posted On: 09-08-2012, 11:56 PM
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    boxhead201 liked post by Frostflower On thread : Sorry, Conrad
    Let's hear it for Conrad! :allhail: Thank you for all you do.
    Liked On: 09-02-2012, 09:13 AM
    Posted On: 08-25-2012, 04:12 PM
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    boxhead201 liked post by arbitrator On thread : Sorry, Conrad
    At least for me, Conrad has been a guiding light in a total sea of darkness. Like the best of friends, he consoles you, tells you what you "need" to know, and sometimes will call you to task on some...
    Liked On: 09-02-2012, 09:13 AM
    Posted On: 08-25-2012, 10:20 AM
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    boxhead201 liked post by Conrad On thread : Another separated marriage (cont)
    Then let her. You give defiant people what they want.
    Liked On: 08-30-2012, 08:15 PM
    Posted On: 08-30-2012, 10:22 AM
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    boxhead201 liked post by Conrad On thread : MEN: Don't lose him
    I've almost forgotten why Synthetic ever needed lumber.
    Liked On: 08-29-2012, 08:19 PM
    Posted On: 08-29-2012, 03:03 PM
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    boxhead201 liked post by synthetic On thread : Why am I not good enough?
    If you're good enough to be born, you're good enough to be loved. Now stop feeling sorry for yourself and read the following 2 links. You've got a lot of work to do. If you dedicate yourself...
    Liked On: 08-27-2012, 11:57 PM
    Posted On: 08-27-2012, 10:31 PM
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    boxhead201 liked post by Conrad On thread : Asked For Divorce But Still Hasn't Filed
    Getting your wife back is not the goal. Being the man you were born to be is your goal. You may get a nice bonus if you accomplish your goal. Yet, if you are doing this for someone else, it...
    Liked On: 08-12-2012, 08:14 PM
    Posted On: 08-12-2012, 04:08 PM
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    boxhead201 liked post by UpnDown On thread : when does it get better?
    In her own (and may I mention SICK) sort of way, she has already 'moved on'. Unfortunately. You are going to feel the severe ups and downs throughout all of this .. I am also 4 months in (3...
    Liked On: 08-12-2012, 07:54 PM
    Posted On: 07-07-2012, 06:45 PM
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    boxhead201 liked post by Berilo On thread : when does it get better?
    I have been separated for 10 months. At first it felt really awful, given the turmoil -- the "closeness" of heightened emotional entanglement strangely juxtaposed with the raw silence of living...
    Liked On: 08-12-2012, 07:53 PM
    Posted On: 07-07-2012, 06:31 PM
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    boxhead201 liked post by Conrad On thread : Abuse of Process
    Still observing. Still @50,000 feet. Still discouraged. I hear plenty of good things. I hear things like this, "I know I've always loved you, but I haven't always acted like it." This is...
    Liked On: 07-29-2012, 08:59 AM
    Posted On: 07-27-2012, 07:15 PM
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