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- 20-30 yrs.
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- cabbage65 liked post by justwhy On thread : Please dont say you told me so!!!Too early for friendship.. he's not lying to you anymore. HE LOVES HER AND YOU ARE A FRIEND..... NO friendship-- co-parenting only. You will never heal because you are trying to justify his...Liked On: 03-06-2012, 07:37 PM
Posted On: 03-06-2012, 09:47 AMcabbage65 liked post by angelpixie On thread : Please dont say you told me so!!!Be careful, DG! Yes, you miss your friend -- that was part of the marriage. I think it's pretty near impossible for someone who truly loved another to be just a friend. And, like you said, after he...Liked On: 03-06-2012, 07:37 PM
Posted On: 03-06-2012, 08:24 AMcabbage65 liked post by angelpixie On thread : Please dont say you told me so!!!I'm so sorry, DG. I have read this thread, and you sound like such a sweet, caring, strong woman. I hate how the BSs always corrupt the word 'love.' What they have is nothing like love. It is...Liked On: 03-06-2012, 07:36 PM
Posted On: 03-06-2012, 12:50 AMcabbage65 liked post by This is me On thread : Choosing a Counselor During Lengthy SeparationI think it is a good idea to seek counselling. It is a process of detachment and mourning. Who ever you see should be someone you think is good for you. Ask around for a referral if possible and...Liked On: 03-06-2012, 06:52 PM
Posted On: 02-28-2012, 01:08 PMcabbage65 liked post by EleGirl On thread : STBXH - WTF, already!Ok, now I understand where you are coming from. I'll tell you what worked for me. I told my ex during the divorce and for a long time after that I would only communicate with him via email and...Liked On: 03-06-2012, 06:25 AM
Posted On: 03-05-2012, 10:50 PMcabbage65 liked post by EleGirl On thread : STBXH - WTF, already!IF you keep this up you will drive yourself nuts. Do not expect anything from this man. He is your STBXH. Realize that he has already cut you out of his life.He might be complementing the dress...Liked On: 03-06-2012, 06:25 AM
Posted On: 03-05-2012, 10:30 PMcabbage65 liked post by EleGirl On thread : This MAY help you ...I so wish I lived near a beach... well actually I live near the Rio Grande... we have a lot of beach... lots of sand. But the ocean left about 100,000 years ago.Liked On: 03-06-2012, 06:24 AM
Posted On: 03-05-2012, 09:42 PMcabbage65 liked post by cantmove On thread : This MAY help you ...Thank you for that. I too feel no motivation to do much even after I have long motivational talks with myself. But tomorrow I am going to start running again. I was blindsided with I'm leaving you...Liked On: 03-05-2012, 09:39 PM
Posted On: 03-04-2012, 06:28 PMcabbage65 liked post by melissa68 On thread : This MAY help you ...Good for you! Sometimes you just have to make yourself get angry...pissed off at the one who left....pissed off enough to say exactly that....you are not taking another damn minute from me! On...Liked On: 03-05-2012, 09:39 PM
Posted On: 03-04-2012, 06:57 PMcabbage65 liked post by Mamatomany On thread : This MAY help you ...Honestly... you may hate to exercise. Start small and work your way up. It's so easy to do if you make little commitments to yourself...Just to you so YOU know if YOU let yourself down. I started...Liked On: 03-05-2012, 09:38 PM
Posted On: 03-04-2012, 09:19 PMcabbage65 liked post by hilly2 On thread : This MAY help you ...This is true. Yesterday, I couldn't get out of bed. I spent all morning and most of the afternoon feeling sorry for myself. Finally at 3pm, I willed myself up, threw on my sneakers and went for a...Liked On: 03-05-2012, 09:38 PM
Posted On: 03-04-2012, 09:40 PMcabbage65 liked post by angelpixie On thread : This MAY help you ...Good for you, EleGirl! I'm not crazy about exercise that 'feels' like exercise, either. Doing yard work or biking to the grocery store is a multi-tasking kind of thing that works well for some...Liked On: 03-05-2012, 09:38 PM
Posted On: 03-05-2012, 08:57 PMcabbage65 liked post by EleGirl On thread : This MAY help you ...I love to walk but the depression over my marriage is making it hard for me to get out and do anything. I keep asking my husband to walk with him but his computer games are far more important. ...Liked On: 03-05-2012, 09:38 PM
Posted On: 03-04-2012, 09:49 PMcabbage65 liked post by hurtinme On thread : This MAY help you ...Ok were all really hurting in here this is the house of pain. So right now I cannot be bothered with anything friends family hobbies etc sound familiar yeah a know it must because I am not unique. ...Liked On: 03-05-2012, 09:34 PM
Posted On: 03-04-2012, 03:16 PMcabbage65 liked post by Nsweet On thread : Mediation??I used mediation and loved it! I couldn't stand the thought of court and defending her accusations in front of a judge. I decided to give up and let her have the stupid divorce and she ended up...Liked On: 03-05-2012, 02:56 PM
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