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  • About cantthinkstraight
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    cantthinkstraight liked post by ing On thread : I feel stuck in my affair
    One of the things that I hear alot is that he/she makes me feel good. Makes me feel valuable. This is incredibly intoxicating for both parties and it is wonderful to have a person building you...
    Liked On: 04-03-2013, 12:07 AM
    Posted On: 03-27-2013, 10:09 PM
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    cantthinkstraight liked post by JCD On thread : Just found out...
    I get a sense that you might patch it up. That is for you to decide, of course. Instead of telling you to ditch him totally, let me go off script and say that if you DO try to reconcile, that you...
    Liked On: 03-14-2013, 01:41 AM
    Posted On: 03-13-2013, 11:31 PM
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    cantthinkstraight liked post by waves On thread : Just found out...
    Hi Everyone, Thank you all so much for the advice, stories and wisdom. I did actually tell my friends and family about it right away because I don't keep secrets. I wanted to let you all...
    Liked On: 03-14-2013, 01:40 AM
    Posted On: 03-13-2013, 03:29 PM
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    cantthinkstraight liked post by daisygirl 41 On thread : Just found out...
    Sorry you are here. In my opinion you should postpone the wedding. This is a terrible way to start married life. You need a lot longer than 3 months to work through this. My H cheated on me after...
    Liked On: 03-14-2013, 01:38 AM
    Posted On: 02-22-2013, 01:37 PM
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    cantthinkstraight liked post by lordmayhem On thread : Why oh Why?
    Most WW say that to their OM so they can justify leaving their BH. They aren't going to say, "Well, I left my husband because he's a great guy". They have to demonize their husband. You took her...
    Liked On: 03-14-2013, 01:35 AM
    Posted On: 02-25-2013, 12:55 AM
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    cantthinkstraight liked post by walkonmars On thread : Why oh Why?
    Why do you need solid proof of infidelity? Is it for legal reasons or just for your own peace of mind? You said you dated her while she was going through her rough first marriage. It sounds like...
    Liked On: 03-14-2013, 01:33 AM
    Posted On: 02-24-2013, 12:23 PM
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    cantthinkstraight liked post by bfree On thread : She Cheated. I hate my life.
    It can never be. Its like the Observer Effect in physics. The Observer Effect states that the simple act of observing changes the outcome of the phenomenon being observed. Simple example, checking...
    Liked On: 03-12-2013, 06:31 AM
    Posted On: 03-11-2013, 06:00 PM
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    cantthinkstraight liked post by cpacan On thread : She Cheated. I hate my life.
    One of the reasons you... no, I'll include myself, WE are sad and angry is because we're loosing. We're loosing the fight against reality. Think about it, would the anger and sadness last this...
    Liked On: 03-12-2013, 06:30 AM
    Posted On: 03-11-2013, 02:49 PM
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    cantthinkstraight liked post by SomedayDig On thread : She Cheated. I hate my life.
    Oh, I totally understand DD's anger. It's a deep seething thing that just sits there sometimes. You can feel it, you just don't release it. Then something...anything...triggers it and...
    Liked On: 03-12-2013, 06:29 AM
    Posted On: 03-11-2013, 02:20 PM
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    cantthinkstraight liked post by Kermitty On thread : A question for cheaters who want to stay in their marriage...
    I know you are not here to bash anyone but there are plenty who will do it when a WS answers a question such as this. That being said, I'm still going to answer your question. When my husband...
    Liked On: 03-11-2013, 01:08 PM
    Posted On: 03-05-2013, 08:47 PM
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    cantthinkstraight liked post by soulpotato On thread : A question for cheaters who want to stay in their marriage...
    ScorchedEarth, you tried, and that is more than anyone can ask for. My other half asks or talks about it in bits and pieces, but isn't ready to ask questions about details for the most part. I've...
    Liked On: 03-11-2013, 01:07 PM
    Posted On: 03-05-2013, 08:27 PM
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    cantthinkstraight liked post by AnnieAsh On thread : A question for cheaters who want to stay in their marriage...
    Very few actual WS responses as yet. Sometimes, when a WS explains their thinking, it gets shouted down or they assume other posters don't REALLY want to know, they want to vent. I don't think all WS...
    Liked On: 03-11-2013, 01:04 PM
    Posted On: 03-05-2013, 07:15 PM
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    cantthinkstraight liked post by SomedayDig On thread : A question for cheaters who want to stay in their marriage...
    My honest opinion is that most are cowards and are fearful of losing their "security blanket". Most...not all. There are some wayward spouses who are slapped back to reality on Dday. If they show...
    Liked On: 03-11-2013, 01:02 PM
    Posted On: 03-05-2013, 06:46 PM
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    cantthinkstraight liked post by soulpotato On thread : A question for cheaters who want to stay in their marriage...
    For some of us, it's not like this, not about this at all. We're not cake-eaters, sticking around for financial benefit, or just because it looks good to the friends and family. Cheating on and...
    Liked On: 03-11-2013, 12:57 PM
    Posted On: 03-05-2013, 04:39 PM
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    cantthinkstraight liked post by Almostrecovered On thread : A question for cheaters who want to stay in their marriage...
    logic doesn't often enter into the mind of someone engaged in cheating.
    Liked On: 03-11-2013, 12:49 PM
    Posted On: 03-05-2013, 01:42 PM
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