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  • About Chris989
    I am a:
    Male
    Relationship Status
    Divorced
    Length of time in current relationship:
    20-30 yrs.
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Location
    UK
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    "Learn from the mistakes of others. You can never live long enough to make them all yourself"
    - Groucho Marx

    My story (well, what I knew at the time ): http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-...tml#post878589

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  1. Chris989
    Chris989 liked post by TRy On thread : Expose to OMW if the affair is long dead?
    Stop the affair is one reason to expose. The other is to increase the odds that it does not start up again. As for it having stopped 18 months ago, you cannot really say that with any confidence; the...
    Liked On: Today, 03:08 PM
    Posted On: Yesterday, 05:31 PM
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    Chris989 liked post by Remains On thread : Wife is in a PA/EA
    You said earlier that you handled the regret over the abortion differently. Correct. But you both view it differently. You are upset it came to that, all brought about by her inability to...
    Liked On: Today, 06:08 AM
    Posted On: Today, 03:22 AM
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    Chris989 liked post by badmemory On thread : How long did it take for you to get over the " sex " part of the affair?
    One year, 7 months into R. Still waiting.......
    Liked On: Yesterday, 08:29 PM
    Posted On: Yesterday, 11:24 AM
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    Chris989 liked post by russell28 On thread : How long did it take for you to get over the " sex " part of the affair?
    I do.. it's a requirement of mine.
    Liked On: Yesterday, 08:29 PM
    Posted On: Yesterday, 08:48 AM
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    Chris989 liked post by LRgirl On thread : Letter, or text to the AP from the BS.
    Maybe it is worth a try.......but IMHO it isn't worth your effort, you will get so little back. All they are interested in is saving their own skin, so if they happen to be married they will...
    Liked On: Yesterday, 05:32 PM
    Posted On: Yesterday, 04:06 PM
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    Chris989 liked post by crossbar On thread : Wife is in a PA/EA
    Oh really?!?!? Then, she really must resent the OM because she was cheating on you with him and got HERSELF into that situation. NOT YOU! You had nothing to do with that. Had she kept her legs...
    Liked On: Yesterday, 04:01 PM
    Posted On: Yesterday, 10:50 AM
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    Chris989 liked post by Hardtohandle On thread : Wife is in a PA/EA
    Sorry to see you here. More people will come to help you out. Anything bolded and underlined can be googled or searched here for more info. First off she is cake eating and she is probably lying...
    Liked On: Yesterday, 04:01 PM
    Posted On: Yesterday, 10:43 AM
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    Chris989 liked post by LetDownNTX On thread : Marriage Counseling
    I really love our counselor! So glad I found him! I liked the last one but this one seems so much better. I think that my WH likes him because he doesnt want to focus too much on the past (aside...
    Liked On: Yesterday, 08:16 AM
    Posted On: Yesterday, 07:48 AM
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    Chris989 liked post by Myka On thread : Oh Gawd
    I really can't go into detail, so I'm just posting a quick response before I go away. For obvious reasons I won't be able to come here for support in the future. Yes I posted here knowing he...
    Liked On: 05-19-2013, 03:37 PM
    Posted On: 05-19-2013, 10:16 AM
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    Chris989 liked post by Kallan Pavithran On thread : OM's GF causing trouble a year after DDay
    Chris, OMGF is also a BS, she too is in misery and triggers. May be that was a bad day for her or may be that dutch bag started sneaking around, She may have been a WS but its not that easy to walk...
    Liked On: 05-18-2013, 11:45 AM
    Posted On: 05-18-2013, 11:35 AM
  11. Chris989
    Chris989 liked post by LetDownNTX On thread : Marriage Counseling
    We also have agreed that anything said in separate sessions can be brought up in joint sessions. I think sometimes its easier for people who cant express themselves clearly to share deep thoughts...
    Liked On: 05-18-2013, 10:54 AM
    Posted On: 05-17-2013, 01:06 PM
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    Chris989 liked post by alte Dame On thread : OM's GF causing trouble a year after DDay
    It sounds like the OM is so completely, 100% untrustworthy that his GF lives on tenterhooks. She LOVES him, no doubt, but he cheats on her left and right, so she doesn't trust him as far as she can...
    Liked On: 05-18-2013, 10:25 AM
    Posted On: 05-18-2013, 10:10 AM
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    Chris989 liked post by Nsweet On thread : OM's GF causing trouble a year after DDay
    Oh man, I do not feel sorry for her. Cheater who end up leaving primary relationships to be together don't usually last for longer than 3 years, before one of them cheats or it's no longer fun and...
    Liked On: 05-18-2013, 10:21 AM
    Posted On: 05-18-2013, 05:39 AM
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    Chris989 liked post by Shaggy On thread : OM's GF causing trouble a year after DDay
    I think it's great therapy for you Ex to have this happening, it just might help her by driving home how her choosing to cheat has long term consequences to many people and now to her too. You...
    Liked On: 05-18-2013, 02:58 AM
    Posted On: 05-18-2013, 12:40 AM
  15. Chris989
    Chris989 liked post by Nsweet On thread : OM's GF causing trouble a year after DDay
    :rofl:Sounds like OM is cheating on his girlfriend again and she suspects your ExW. I don't know what you're ex wife is up to, but it sounds to me like she's pretty much done with the OM and he's...
    Liked On: 05-17-2013, 07:21 PM
    Posted On: 05-17-2013, 05:32 PM
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