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- Female
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- Separated
- Length of time in current relationship:
- 12-16 yrs.
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- Heterosexual
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- SCondeck liked post by cmf On thread : False Reconciliation, dealing with the hurt againFor anyone still keeping up with all this: Had court again today. Got basic child support filed with it coming directly out of his paycheck! :) Hopefully he will not lose this job soon. Nothing...Liked On: 10-18-2012, 10:10 PM
Posted On: 10-18-2012, 12:45 PMvi_bride04 liked post by cmf On thread : Tactic?Sad, I know it's hard. I was in an abusive relationship and didn't see it for what it was for 15 years. My sisters saw it, I think my kids even knew. They will probably never own up to it or`show...Liked On: 10-08-2012, 08:02 PM
Posted On: 10-08-2012, 07:14 PMsadwithouthim liked post by cmf On thread : Tactic?Sad- I feel the same way. I am scared I will seek out a man like my husband.I have been in an unhealthy relationship for 15 years. I never saw the red flags until marriage. I met with my lawyer...Liked On: 10-02-2012, 09:48 PM
Posted On: 10-02-2012, 07:42 PMvi_bride04 liked post by cmf On thread : Tactic?Sad- I feel the same way. I am scared I will seek out a man like my husband.I have been in an unhealthy relationship for 15 years. I never saw the red flags until marriage. I met with my lawyer...Liked On: 10-02-2012, 07:50 PM
Posted On: 10-02-2012, 07:42 PMMattMatt liked post by cmf On thread : My story is sad but trueIt makes my blood boil reading that :mad: I would get them in therapy immediately. Have the therapist address this with her. Big reality check for her. Is there no legal way to stop him from...Liked On: 09-12-2012, 05:34 PM
Posted On: 09-06-2012, 01:21 PMvi_bride04 liked post by cmf On thread : Tactic?Sad- I so agree with the last 2 posts. My H came to me and said the same thing and even put forth some effort into NC and being transparent, but his remorse was not geniune and after a year he did...Liked On: 09-07-2012, 10:42 AM
Posted On: 09-07-2012, 09:13 AMdazedguy liked post by cmf On thread : Tactic?Sad- I so agree with the last 2 posts. My H came to me and said the same thing and even put forth some effort into NC and being transparent, but his remorse was not geniune and after a year he did...Liked On: 09-07-2012, 09:36 AM
Posted On: 09-07-2012, 09:13 AMdscl liked post by cmf On thread : Tactic?I completely agree with dazedguy! The detaching is very hard. I am still struggling on a daily basis with it. I can tell you from experience, that to reconcile without the remorse and effort from...Liked On: 09-01-2012, 07:11 PM
Posted On: 09-01-2012, 11:25 AMsadwithouthim liked post by cmf On thread : Tactic?Keep the focus on yourself. Easier said than done, I know. I struggle with this daily, but I know that I am a shell of the person I was 15 years ago. Focus on finding work, possibly moving, working...Liked On: 09-01-2012, 12:24 PM
Posted On: 09-01-2012, 12:21 PMsadwithouthim liked post by cmf On thread : Tactic?I completely agree with dazedguy! The detaching is very hard. I am still struggling on a daily basis with it. I can tell you from experience, that to reconcile without the remorse and effort from...Liked On: 09-01-2012, 11:36 AM
Posted On: 09-01-2012, 11:25 AMdazedguy liked post by cmf On thread : Tactic?I completely agree with dazedguy! The detaching is very hard. I am still struggling on a daily basis with it. I can tell you from experience, that to reconcile without the remorse and effort from...Liked On: 09-01-2012, 11:33 AM
Posted On: 09-01-2012, 11:25 AMsadwithouthim liked post by cmf On thread : Tactic?I do work. I am the only source of support for my kids right now. Please stop blaming yourself . This man made the choice to do this without even considering you or your son. The decision to...Liked On: 08-29-2012, 03:11 PM
Posted On: 08-29-2012, 02:16 PMvi_bride04 liked post by cmf On thread : Tactic?I do work. I am the only source of support for my kids right now. Please stop blaming yourself . This man made the choice to do this without even considering you or your son. The decision to...Liked On: 08-29-2012, 02:25 PM
Posted On: 08-29-2012, 02:16 PMsadwithouthim liked post by cmf On thread : Tactic?Sad- I promise you can do this. I am in the same boat. I made the decision the week I threw him out that the only way I can move on is to leave the house we bought together and start over fresh in...Liked On: 08-29-2012, 12:27 PM
Posted On: 08-29-2012, 12:07 PMvi_bride04 liked post by cmf On thread : Tactic?Sad- I promise you can do this. I am in the same boat. I made the decision the week I threw him out that the only way I can move on is to leave the house we bought together and start over fresh in...Liked On: 08-29-2012, 12:12 PM
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