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Last Activity: 05-22-2013 10:03 PM

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  • About COguy
    I am a:
    Male
    Relationship Status
    Divorced
    Length of time in current relationship:
    8-12 yrs.
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Biography
    Wife had EA and ONS. Attempted to reconcile but found out later she had been lying the whole reconciliation period. Currently going through a high conflict divorce, trying to take the high road.
    Interests
    Dancing, Painting, Rugby, Cooking

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  • Last Activity: 05-22-2013 10:03 PM
  • Join Date: 12-01-2011

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  1. Emerald
    Emerald liked post by COguy On thread : Does it bother you?
    Came in late, just wanted to let all you mature women out there that older women can be incredibly sexy. Part of what makes them so hot is that they often don't have all the insecurity, they're...
    Liked On: 01-07-2013, 09:14 AM
    Posted On: 01-07-2013, 09:13 AM
  2. Dulciean
    Dulciean liked post by COguy On thread : My passive husband is driving me insane.
    Then you need to "man" up and start living your own life. If you say, "Hey let's do XYZ, I need that to feel fulfilled." and he responds, "I'm not giving up video games." And nothing changes in the...
    Liked On: 01-06-2013, 04:17 PM
    Posted On: 01-04-2013, 01:10 PM
  3. 1kasey
    1kasey liked post by COguy On thread : My passive husband is driving me insane.
    Then you need to "man" up and start living your own life. If you say, "Hey let's do XYZ, I need that to feel fulfilled." and he responds, "I'm not giving up video games." And nothing changes in the...
    Liked On: 01-05-2013, 08:10 PM
    Posted On: 01-04-2013, 01:10 PM
  4. Tigger
    Tigger liked post by COguy On thread : My passive husband is driving me insane.
    1. Speak your mind, you're not doing anyone any favors by bottling this in. 2. Start planning activities together 3. If you married him the way he acts, don't expect that he will change.
    Liked On: 01-05-2013, 06:34 PM
    Posted On: 01-04-2013, 10:39 AM
  5. BarelyThere
    BarelyThere liked post by COguy On thread : My passive husband is driving me insane.
    Then you need to "man" up and start living your own life. If you say, "Hey let's do XYZ, I need that to feel fulfilled." and he responds, "I'm not giving up video games." And nothing changes in the...
    Liked On: 01-04-2013, 04:31 PM
    Posted On: 01-04-2013, 01:10 PM
  6. SimplyAmorous
    SimplyAmorous liked post by COguy On thread : My passive husband is driving me insane.
    Then you need to "man" up and start living your own life. If you say, "Hey let's do XYZ, I need that to feel fulfilled." and he responds, "I'm not giving up video games." And nothing changes in the...
    Liked On: 01-04-2013, 02:33 PM
    Posted On: 01-04-2013, 01:10 PM
  7. Coffee Amore
    Coffee Amore liked post by COguy On thread : My passive husband is driving me insane.
    Then you need to "man" up and start living your own life. If you say, "Hey let's do XYZ, I need that to feel fulfilled." and he responds, "I'm not giving up video games." And nothing changes in the...
    Liked On: 01-04-2013, 02:32 PM
    Posted On: 01-04-2013, 01:10 PM
  8. Enchanted
    Enchanted liked post by COguy On thread : My passive husband is driving me insane.
    1. Speak your mind, you're not doing anyone any favors by bottling this in. 2. Start planning activities together 3. If you married him the way he acts, don't expect that he will change.
    Liked On: 01-04-2013, 11:23 AM
    Posted On: 01-04-2013, 10:39 AM
  9. StargateFan
    StargateFan liked post by COguy On thread : I can't quit loving my BPD wife
    I know that sounds harsh but an untreated person with a cluster B PD has such a dramatically different way of thinking that to treat them as normal will only end in frustration. Pidge you have...
    Liked On: 01-01-2013, 01:53 PM
    Posted On: 12-01-2012, 09:25 AM
  10. MattMatt
    MattMatt liked post by COguy On thread : wife and best friend having (at least) an EA
    Glad you're doing well. You're going to have an awesome life, because you're one of those positive people that will always better themselves. Go easy on the ladies....
    Liked On: 12-29-2012, 05:46 PM
    Posted On: 12-14-2012, 11:50 AM
  11. lostsoul25
    lostsoul25 liked post by COguy On thread : Never Loved my wife - going thru emotional trauma
    Before I read your followup post I was thinking, "This guy met another girl..." You're problem is that you're in an affair, not that you don't love your wife. Love is an action not a feeling....
    Liked On: 12-22-2012, 03:42 PM
    Posted On: 12-20-2012, 08:40 AM
  12. Created2Write
    Created2Write liked post by COguy On thread : Never Loved my wife - going thru emotional trauma
    Better than coddling him and making him feel like he's fortune's fool for all the horrible things in life that keep "happening" to him. I swear we're raising generations of people that just think...
    Liked On: 12-22-2012, 03:11 PM
    Posted On: 12-20-2012, 03:54 PM
  13. Created2Write
    Created2Write liked post by COguy On thread : Never Loved my wife - going thru emotional trauma
    My biggest problem is that the hypocrisy in this guy's life seems to benefit only him. He doesn't love a woman at all, but he marries her anyway. That's fine, if that's your cultural thing own it...
    Liked On: 12-22-2012, 03:10 PM
    Posted On: 12-20-2012, 03:34 PM
  14. Created2Write
    Created2Write liked post by COguy On thread : Never Loved my wife - going thru emotional trauma
    You committed to marrying someone and loving them for the rest of your life, KNOWING that you didn't love them at the time. In essence, you should know better than anyone that love isn't a feeling,...
    Liked On: 12-22-2012, 03:07 PM
    Posted On: 12-20-2012, 10:14 AM
  15. Created2Write
    Created2Write liked post by COguy On thread : Never Loved my wife - going thru emotional trauma
    Before I read your followup post I was thinking, "This guy met another girl..." You're problem is that you're in an affair, not that you don't love your wife. Love is an action not a feeling....
    Liked On: 12-22-2012, 03:04 PM
    Posted On: 12-20-2012, 08:40 AM
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