Cyber Cheating Stinks
- About Cyber Cheating Stinks
- I am a:
- Relationship Status
- Length of time in current relationship:
- 8-12 yrs.
- Sexual Orientation
- I printed out all of the emails and chats and laid them on the bed. I suspected when my husband would minimize his chats with the OW that there was "secrecy" and not privacy. He was rabid about his privacy. He was "working late" and taking OW out for drinks. They went on a billion holding hands walks on the beach at lunch time (he worked with her for four years). He wanted to fly to Equador with her on one of her cases, but his work would not allow it. What would have happened then, I can only guess. He would get calls in the middle of the night saying she was too drunk to drive from other coworkers, and he would drive her home. He picked her up from the airport in the middle of the night when she returned from Equador. I asked him, "Do I have anything to be concerned about here?"
"No. She is just a friend. I will tell you when you have something to worry about. Who would be interested in a guy like me, anyway?" he would assure me.
So I lay on the bed, sick, head spinning, waiting for him to come home, with all the chat and emails printed out. He walks in, finds me upstairs and I ask him, "Can you explain this?"
He starts to read the texts, and I watch the blood drain from his face. "I am sorry you had to see this." is all he said.
"If you want out of this marriage, you should have had the respect for me that I thought you had, and let me know." I said.
"I don't love her. I love you." was his reply.
"People don't treat people they love like this." I say.
"Nothing was going to happen. It was just talk. We both don't mean it." he responds.
Then two weeks later I read that he is writing to another old friend that is just pushing him to get together, referring to me as the "little wife". He says he wishes he had a divorced idiot. He asks her if a married guy got together for sex with another married woman, just because they are perfect for eachother sexually, but wanted to stay married, would she think less of him?"
So it was not just talk. I told him I will grant his wish and be a "divorced idiot". Then he gets nasty. "Don't I have any privacy?!"
"No, not anymore you don't. Not to hook up with other women on our computer, in our home. While I lay sleeping in our house with our children." I said.
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