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- anony2 liked post by deejov On thread : Men - self imposed rejectionDTO, My husband does not express interest in sex, at least not in the way "most" men would. He never has. Long story short, he's got issues with self esteem, being passive agrgressive, and is...Liked On: 04-02-2013, 07:53 PM
Posted On: 10-24-2012, 05:55 PManony2 liked post by deejov On thread : Men - self imposed rejectionI applaud what you wrote. I forget that I have been through the mill in my lifetime. I was a single parent, going to college, working two jobs, and huge huge stress. I did not, ever, come...Liked On: 04-02-2013, 07:43 PM
Posted On: 10-22-2012, 04:19 PManony2 liked post by deejov On thread : Men - self imposed rejectionMany posters here will say it is caused by being rejected too many times, so there is resentment there, fear of being rejected again, etc and some believe rejection is also defined as attitude or...Liked On: 04-02-2013, 07:36 PM
Posted On: 10-22-2012, 11:15 AManony2 liked post by deejov On thread : Men - self imposed rejectionThat does explain it better. The outer surface arguement ...... it's a marriage killer to deny your husband's needs for sex. The inner truth is there is a power struggle going on. I"m not...Liked On: 04-02-2013, 07:23 PM
Posted On: 10-21-2012, 12:02 PManony2 liked post by deejov On thread : Men - self imposed rejectionWorking, What I am talking about specifically is those times when a partner is feeling frisky, the other partner is pre-occupied with something else (kids or other) or not in a relaxed mood. I...Liked On: 04-02-2013, 07:23 PM
Posted On: 10-21-2012, 11:38 AManony2 liked post by deejov On thread : Men - self imposed rejectionI just find it sad that a sheer lack of a few sentences could cause such pain for men. To deny us broads without penises (so we think differently, duh) the opportunity to clue into when you are...Liked On: 04-02-2013, 07:15 PM
Posted On: 10-20-2012, 04:32 PManony2 liked post by deejov On thread : Men - self imposed rejectionUB, I'm not talking about jumping through hoops. (So, is your wife supposed to be able to read your mind from 50 feet away and know that you are feeling frisky and stop what she is doing and come...Liked On: 04-02-2013, 07:07 PM
Posted On: 10-20-2012, 04:20 PManony2 liked post by deejov On thread : Men - self imposed rejectionStritle, you hit on what I was wondering. Reading T2's post, yeah a woman can have a million excuses. So can men. But here's the rub. There are just as many posts about a wife should be...Liked On: 04-02-2013, 06:42 PM
Posted On: 10-20-2012, 01:12 PManony2 liked post by deejov On thread : Men - self imposed rejectionThat's just what I was thinking. Don't most of us think along the lines of "get your spouse in the mood" and we talk about how to do that? Yet there is this common theme among longer married...Liked On: 04-02-2013, 06:42 PM
Posted On: 10-20-2012, 01:03 PManony2 liked post by deejov On thread : Men - self imposed rejectionNot to hijack a thread, but I've seen a few comments from male posters that women give off a "vibe" that they aren't in the mood, so men don't initiate intimacy, because they are sure they are going...Liked On: 04-02-2013, 06:38 PM
Posted On: 10-19-2012, 11:30 PMsomethingelse liked post by deejov On thread : Making Mountains out of Molehills in RelationshipsIt has been said that the source of conflict for all of humanity can be directly related to judgement. Right or wrong Ugly or beautiful Good or bad Point of view. And defending it. Wars....Liked On: 04-01-2013, 10:18 PM
Posted On: 04-01-2013, 09:47 PMwalkingwounded liked post by deejov On thread : How do I fix this?Glad to hear you had a great time.!!!! Make sure he shows his vacay side more often, Book another weekend retreat :smthumbup:Liked On: 04-01-2013, 05:37 PM
Posted On: 03-31-2013, 09:48 PMIn_The_Wind liked post by deejov On thread : Today is not a good day...He took the blame and responsibility... even though you filed the papers, he wanted you to know that it's what he wants too. He wants to be single. Getting himself better would be awesome. Even...Liked On: 04-01-2013, 02:16 PM
Posted On: 04-01-2013, 02:14 PMConrad liked post by deejov On thread : War StoriesThe garage is good for losing your shet? The time for you to shine is coming. I have said ... " I cannot compete with the booze. I will not win". Desperation has made me think that was the...Liked On: 03-31-2013, 12:16 PM
Posted On: 03-31-2013, 12:03 PMthat_girl liked post by deejov On thread : Today is not a good day...Hugs, TG. wish there was something we could all say to make it go away. I wrote something in War Stories today. No matter what I do, my H sees me at my worst, not who I am today. I wish I knew...Liked On: 03-31-2013, 09:27 AM
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